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Try And Try And Try Again.

Submitted by: J. C.

Kenya

I'm a Christian writer and fitness enthusiast who has been experimenting with The Secret and the power of positive thinking for a bit over two years now. The two have worked like magic in both the minor and major facets of my life. I felt the urge to share some of my experiences, to uplift fellow believers and encourage others out there to take a chance on The Secret.

From the beginning, it was a fatal attraction, in more ways than one. She came into my life without the slightest warning and conquered my world without even trying. I got a friend request on Facebook and casually accepted it not knowing the fantastical rollercoaster ride that would ensue in the 17 months to come. We began talking infrequently and exchanging tidbits about ourselves. Somehow in the back of my mind, I had a feeling this interaction would lead down a beautiful road. Later she revealed to me that she had been harboring a huge crush on me before she’d even met me. As it turned out, she had seen my picture in a friend’s Instagram collection, and from that random find, she felt inclined to get to know me even though she had no clue how to start. She got her friends involved and launched a month-long investigation to find out my name on Facebook! Looking back, I realize that was the LOA at work. Unbeknownst to me, I was attracting my soulmate into my life.

We quickly discovered that we were enrolled to the same University and eventually decided to meet up for a lunch date. She charmed me instantly with her warm personality and her radiant smile. We hit it off and within a month, I expressed my feelings and she said she felt the same way but wasn’t ready to explore a new relationship.
She let me into her past and revealed a history of emotional trauma from previous relationships with people who didn’t value her.

Being the charming tick that I am, lol, I persistently continued to woo her until she eventually gave in to my wiles. Throughout our on and off relationship I got to really experience the Secret. At times, her commitment issues pushed me to the brink of mental collapse, but by keeping positive and staying in the right vibration, the Lord managed to get us through 10 breakups, countless disagreements, and enabled us to build an incredible bond and beautiful memories together.

Whenever we reach a new level of closeness, she pulls away. These times can be dark, and she oftentimes ignores me outright for long bouts of time. It hurts her, but she just can’t shake the old baggage just yet. That’s when positive thinking and visualization really come into play.

December of last year was a particularly trying time for us. Strong words were exchanged, and more than ever, it seemed our relationship had come to an end. However, I didn’t despair. I came here several times to motivate myself and it changed my thinking. I traded in my regrets and fears in exchange for visions of renewed joy and blissful moments with her. Despite the fact that she had almost completely shut me out of her life at the time, I wrote in my journal that I was going to have amazing dates with her. I visualized it all happening and replayed a recording of Connor McGregor’s quotes on the LOA, throughout my days. I reached out to her every now and then to see how my luck was turning around. Sure enough, we ended up enjoying many more amazing moments together soon after, about 3 weeks from when I wrote it down. Our connection was even stronger.

It’s been a long ride and we still go through the same cat and mouse game every 2 months, but this experience has really shown me how our thinking attracts and manifests our outcomes. On the eve of writing this, she had gone a month without responding to my messages. I was getting frustrated until I remembered the previous time. I committed myself to visualizing only positive images of us throughout the day. I reached out for what I’m guessing was the 16th time. The LOA worked instantly! She responded in a light-hearted and friendly mood and I can safely say we are on our way back. It may be slow, but if you believe, act and feel as one who is already in possession of what you desire, you can manifest incredible things. Don’t worry about the “how” or the “when”. Just believe, think positive and visualize your desires. Everything will manifest itself in due time.

Thank you Rhonda and the team for bringing this amazing thought to our generation. Many blessings and love to all of you who are reading this.

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