The Best Friend I’ve Dreamed Of Is Finally Here!
Hi, guys. Before I begin sharing my story, I just wanna give a quick thanks to The Secret team and Rhonda for exposing such a powerful truth to the world, and to God for making us live in such a thought-based Universe.
This is my first story btw! I always wanted to post a story on here. Anywho, my story is like something out of a juicy romance movie, sort of!
Making friends was always difficult for me, from the time I was a young child, up to now. The few friends I did have were either only pretending to be my friend, would lose contact after a certain amount of time, or we would have disagreements and the “friendships” would just dissolve altogether. I do have this guy friend of seven years though and he and I are kind of close and still going strong.
Ever since about 6 years ago, I would write out list after list after list of traits and attributes I wanted my female friend to have. I would describe her physical body, behavioral traits, interests, etc. The only reason she had taken so long to manifest, and I didn’t understand this at the time, was because I had been holding on to certain beliefs about having friends that I wasn’t allowing in the kinds of friends that I really wanted to have, and then I would whine and complain that my friend wasn’t manifesting! No wonder why! I kept blocking her from coming to me!
After years of studying more about the law of attraction and Abraham-Hicks and focusing on other dreams and desires, I still kept writing list after list of what I wanted this girl to look like. I described her as being an African-American, light-skinned female, being between the ages of 25 and 27, a full-figured woman, likes to go out, we’re affectionate towards each other, drives a van, lives in or near Philadelphia, enjoys talking to and spending time with me, is supportive of my transgender feelings as I’m actually a male-to-female transgender, currently on hormones, is interested in a long-term friendship with me, and that’s just to name a few!
Fast forward this summer. I’m a student at my local community college. At the beginning of the semester, there was this girl in my class who I had almost fallen in love with. I had also written in my list that I would have somewhat of a romantic interest in her but mind you, I wasn’t thinking about the list at all when I first started seeing her. Anyway, we had this assignment to work on and the minute the professor said “pick a partner” I fired out of my seat and I’m sure you all know who I rushed to!
She was more than happy to get to know me and to work together on the project. She had missed a day and had asked me to help catch her up. I said, no problem. We hit things off quite nicely and ended up exchanging numbers! After school, I helped catch her up. She drove me home from school and we started being friends! I would certainly describe her as a light-skinned African-American female with a plus-sized body figure. She does indeed drive a van, lives in Philadelphia, always wants me to give her a hug, enjoys talking to me, she is very supportive about me transitioning into becoming a woman, and interested in a long-term friendship with me as well as certain other things I had on my list! As for her age, she is actually 35 years old but she and I don’t have any problems with our 12-year-age gap and it won’t get in the way of our friendship.
Also and honestly, I have had a bit of negativity and worry about our relationship but I use EFT tapping, visualization and other things to keep me feeling my positivity and I visualize that she and I are going out more and are getting closer and closer.
So there! If the relationships you seek don’t seem to be anywhere in sight, please do not fret. Just release your negativity, resistance, and bad beliefs about friends and keep your trust in the Universe and they will definitely happen! Also, instead of seeing that person as a gift to you, it would probably help to also see yourself as a gift to that person, as I do with my special someone. She tells me all the time how much of a help I am to her!
Thank you, thank you, thank you!