The Perfect Partner.
First of all, let me say I am grateful for Rhonda, the whole team of The Secret, and everyone on this website who shares their stories that inspire me daily. I hope mine encourages and uplifts someone who is going through relationship trouble and is wondering if the perfect one is out there for them.
In 2004, before I knew about The Secret, The Magic or The Power, I was having the worst year of my life. I was a sophomore in college and on top of a very tough course in college, I was emotionally distressed because my parents were divorcing after 24 years of marriage. I was stressed and putting on weight, and felt horrible about myself and my life.
The one good thing I had at the time were a group of friends who supported me.
One day, for fun, we did an exercise to write out a list of qualities our perfect mate would have. I wrote things like he enjoys life, knows how to say I love you, cherishes me and we are comfortable together. I wrote three pages and at the bottom I put blue eyes, brown hair.
Then I forgot about the list.
In 2011, a co-worker pointed out a guy to me on a dating site I showed him. I messaged the guy and we started hanging out, nothing serious but we were so comfortable around each other we ended up doing everything together and then dating.
May 2014 I married him, and just found my three page list.
My husband fits everything on it! Even the blue eyes and brown hair!
Ask for what you want, let it go, and feel good. It will come to you!