I have never had any success in my love life, literally ever. No one had ever been romantic to me or so much as taken me on a nice date to bar or the cinema. Instead it always equated to just one date then I never heard from them again.
So I’ve always known The Secret is real, through other successful experiences I’ve had, but it has taken time to correct my negative beliefs about my love life.
I decided I wanted to start dating. I didn’t know if I was ready for commitment but I wanted to date. So I wrote down an affirmation, ‘I find it easy to meet really great guys who are great looking, who want to date me and get to know me’.
Literally days later I got a text from my friend who was down the other end of the country meeting a girl friend. It said something along the lines of ‘add this guy on Facebook, he’d be perfect for you’. It was someone she’d met down there… I hadn’t even told my friend I was looking to date!!
This boy bought me flowers, told me I was perfect, took me to the zoo, I met his family and friends and stayed with him for a weekend…all out of nowhere!!!! It didn’t work out relationship wise, but I suppose that’s not what I asked for…
I had ended up liking this guy a bit more than I expected so I wrote a new affirmation to get over him. This one read ‘I find it easy to meet really great guys who are really into me and want to date me.’
3 days later I was still hung up on the last guy, but decided to go on a night out, looking as amazing as I could, to let off some much needed steam! While there I locked eyes with this absolutely gorgeous guy, he came over and asked if he could steal me from my mate. She obliged and I spent the whole night chatting to him. He was so into me, all over me in fact, asking if he could take me on 5 dates to win me over. I couldn’t believe it! I thought it was a joke and didn’t expect him to be in touch the next day, but he was still so keen!! He planned loads of dates he was going to take me on.
And within the next week, he took me to dinner which he paid for, was so affectionate and thoughtful, took me to another meal and generally showed me a good time. Again, this didn’t work out, because I didn’t specify I wanted commitment and he said he ‘wasn’t ready’ which is fair enough. But the connection was definitely there and fiery, which reassures me this is definitely working. And I am so grateful to finally be meeting men who want to treat me right and be a gentleman to me.
I am grateful it hasn’t worked out with these guys cause as easily as I could have fallen for either of them, I know I could design someone even better who will never flake on me! Which is where I’m at now, I have a list of qualities, and I’m going to meditate and visualise every day for the next month… wish me luck!!! xxx