Love Comes When You Are Love.
I just wanna say that I am very grateful to the Universe because I had such a magical experience in my life.
About three years ago I had a burning desire to have a relationship for the first time. I was always looking and wanting one until I just let it go and started to enjoy my life. I was very happy, I loved myself deeply and that brought to me the best experience.
One day I started to talk with a girl from my class. She was just a friend and then we became very close. Little by little I fell in love very deeply for the first time. She had fallen in love with me too and we decided to be in a relationship. The situation caused us to have a long-distance relationship but our love was very strong so that wasn’t a problem. The first two months had been like paradise for me. Everything was perfect and we were talking from 7 pm to 5 am. Our soul connection was very strong.
Then one day I started to think negatively. What it would feel like if she was with somebody else, or I am not good enough for her, I am not man enough and she would be leaving. Those thoughts began to come to life and eventually, my girlfriend did not want to talk to me anymore. She started ignoring me and left me. I was devasted and crying because I did not know what I had done but all those things lead to her decision that it was best to end the relationship. At that moment my heart dropped.
I was depressed for a while but I decided that I needed a change. So I decided to not think about her at all and to cut all contact with her. I started to love myself again and to love the little things that made me enjoy life.
A month later she texted me that she wanted to hang out and talk. She told me that she was sorry about what she had done and that she wanted to get back together.
That is why and when people come to you when you love yourself. Because they feel you have love to give them, that you can love yourself and that is very attractive to them.
Thank you, thank you, thank you! And thank you for The Secret.