Hi all,
First I would like to say thanks to Rhonda Byrne for the truly inspirational book she brought for us all, thanks to the universe and thanks to all my family and friends.

I first picked up The Secret in late November 2010 when I was 30 years of age, it was given to me by my older sister Sonia, thank you Sonia!! By time Christmas had arrived I had finished reading it.

I have a group of friends I’ve been friends with in school and all through our late teens and our twenties we have always been on holiday together and gone to nightclubs and pubs etc together. We are a group of guys who used to go out to have a good time and try to get hooked up with some females wherever possible lol…..the only person who found this extremely hard and near enough impossible (ok, always impossible) was me, this was just something I was useless at, I don’t consider myself ugly, I just never had the confidence in me.

Obviously you guys are from all over the world but in England where I live, friends take the mick out of you for fun, it’s ok because I can give as much as I take but the main thing friends used to take the mick out of me for was, I could not pull or get anywhere near a female.

I had it drilled into me that I was useless at talking to girls and that girls don’t go for me so this became pretty much my life story. I actually believed that I could not.

I picked up The Secret when I was 30, pretty much all my friends had settled down and were having children, buying houses etc. I was happy but always thought that I would be different and that I would not find my soul mate because of how my adult life had unfolded.

I am not religious but always knew there was something more to life than what the eye can see, after reading The Secret in Nov 2010 this ‘knowing there was more to life than what the eye can see’ quickly made sense and The Secret tuned in the scrambled thoughts and knowledge I had on life.

The biggest thing The Secret gave me was the knowledge that I was just thinking the wrong thoughts and I was on the wrong frequency to even get within 50 feet of a female lol.

I shifted my thinking right away, I believed I had a girlfriend who loved me so much that she wants to be with me all the time, I also believed I loved this girl the same way and that we would be best friends, soul mates. I can not explain how I felt, I actually believed I had this love in my life and that I had nothing to worry about because I knew this girl would come and it had been my fault for being so negative on the situation. I did have an imaginary girlfriend……only for a short while though.

In February 2011 (only 2 months after reading The Secret) I got set up with this lovely girl through a friends girlfriends work mate, we hit it off right away and I knew as I was dating this girl that it was the universe that got us together and me shifting my thoughts and my inner belief.

Some might say it was early days but its 2 years on and now I’m very happily married to my best friend, my soul mate, my beautiful wife. I love her with all my heart and always will, the universe definitely worked its magic with me and I’m truly grateful. Writing and sharing my story has made me feel good because I feel I have gave gratitude once again.