Christmas With My Love
A big THANK YOU to Rhonda B. and an equally huge THANK YOU to all of you who have posted their stories. Thanks to all of you I found love and I am continuing to create my happy dreams and life.
I’ve read The Secret a long time ago. I believed it, I’ve practiced it and then….sadly, i forgot about it. I guess in a way I took it for granted. I was using it only when I wanted something quick or something not very important. Of course, the Law of Attraction works in any circumstance. What I really wanted was a partner, a future-husband, a best-friend, all in one.
I used to believe I am a very positive person, however life had showed me that I was wrong. That I have a bad habit of worrying too much. Although I didn’t want to, I was unconsciously doubting that things are going to happen. How so? Simple…always thinking about, worrying, checking obsessively….all these are negative feelings and if you don’t do what The Secret, The Power tells you..Ask, Believe, Receive…things turn against you.
So I was looking for my soul-mate. In order to find him I did what others suggested on the website: I’ve done a vision board (in my case a Powerpoint) that I kept looking at, I’ve written a list of qualities of my ideal partner and I’ve tried to be very specific. I started a journal where every day I was giving thanks for 10 things that happened over the day, plus I was thanking for my amazing partner and putting everything in the present tense trying to feel it as if I have all that already. Another important thing I’ve started doing is to take care of myself more, to love myself more, to look in the mirror and appreciate myself, see my beauty, be aware of the wonderful person I am. Confidence is a very beautiful characteristic in any woman. I’m trying to describe what I’ve done because I know that’s what I was looking for when I was reading the posts here. I was searching for the “secret recipe” 🙂
My love and I have been together for 8 months now and we are very much in love. He is everything I wanted to and so much more. Last year I had imagined that I will spend Christmas with my love, my better half and this is happening now!
I am still trying to correct my bad habits of worrying too much and to this day I am still writing every day my 10 ‘thank yous’ in the journal and my goals every night. My next goal is for us to move in together and get married in the next year. I will come back to write about it and my message here will be entitled “I’m spending the rest of my life with my love, as I imagined!”:).
Guys, always, always, always think about what you WANT to happen, what you want to have, what you want to hear, to see, to get. I know sometimes is not easy, not easy at all…but you have to do it. And write it down! It will help you so much if you write down what you want, be specific to the point of describing the dialog, the feelings you have, the words you use or you want to hear.
I am truly grateful that I am one of the people that are posting their story here! I’ve dreamed about this moment! I hope all of you that are on this website, I hope you’ll get to write your amazingly happy story! I still enjoy reading the stories here. They are full of positive energy, something that we can never get enough of it!