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I Got Him Back!
Submitted by: Arya
IndiaA graduate.
Last year I met the love of my life. I was not in a good state for dating but still, I overcame those insecurities and trusted him. Things were going very smooth and he was the most romantic person I had ever met in my life. He was genuine, strong, loving, caring, supportive, my cheerleader, and my motivator.
We were doing well until he had to shift over to a new place for his new college. That’s when insecurities and negativities started creeping in. I had taken a break and was preparing for my entrance exam. I couldn’t understand his stress and neither did he understand my loneliness. I became more negative and eventually, I lost him.
During this period I realised that it was my own responsibility to keep myself happy. I cried for nights and my body ached. The entrance exam for which I was preparing had been forgotten. That’s when I decided to take my life into my own hands. I started feeling grateful for him and the person he was. I even visualized that he trusted me more than ever and that our issues had resolved but I knew that I had to let it go.
I was madly in love with him and the situation seemed like it was impossible to get him back but deep down I knew if he had been sent into my life it was for the best and if he was taken away it was to make us realize things.
The most important step was letting go and not obsessing about it. I finally let it go and put it all into the hands of God. That’s when I was able to sleep in peace, relax and enjoy. It was the time when I focused on myself and enjoyed every bit of me. I gave my entrance exams. I started focusing on my health, started exercising and I was truly in a happy state.
The key to attracting someone you love is to be happy with yourself first, and that’s when he came back in my life.
We cleared our problems and he said to me that he realized his mistakes and how much he loves me and we got back together. Now he gives me more time than he ever did before. He got an internship in Mumbai and we meet regularly. I am shifting to Kharghar soon. We have become so much more mature than before and now we communicate things and solve our issues. Thank you!