Search Topics
From My Dream To My Reality.
Submitted by: Elma
YorkshireJust a girl looking for the love I deserve.
I’d like to thank Rhonda for sharing The Secret with the world. You’ve opened my eyes to a new life, one where I’m actually living and am in control. Thank you!
I hope this story provides those with something to relate to a sense of belief. In late December 2022, I matched with a man on a dating app. I didn’t think too much about it and we started messaging back and forth. We hit it off immediately and I felt this person had always been in my life. He was so comfortable to message and our first phone call was almost 3 hours long. I can’t explain my feelings towards him other than saying he felt like home. We spoke and messaged day after day, and we just grew stronger in our connection.
A few months in we weren’t able to meet as time just didn’t allow for it. He went on a skiing trip and spent most nights messaging me. We talked of our futures and feelings and it was nothing less than perfect. When he returned he got a chest infection and started to message less. We didn’t call anymore and my doubt crept in. I thought it was a worst-case scenario, and you guessed it! A week or so later he messaged me to say he had too much going on with work and couldn’t continue what we had. I was devastated. I felt like somebody had ripped off my right leg and I was stuck. Stuck with this dark dark cloud just following me around.
It took months to get past those feelings and boy did I dwell in my sadness. I started to speak to others and my days seemed brighter again but he was always in the back of my head. My mind would from time to time wander, and I would find myself thinking about him.
Fast forward 6 months. After no contact at all I accidentally called him!! I freaked out and hung up instantly. I followed up with a message saying, “Oops, wrong person!” I just felt like an idiot.
Much to my own shock, he replied! We started to message back and forth and instantly it felt like we’d picked up where we left off. He felt warm, and comfortable and still felt like home!! A week later we had our first date. We didn’t do anything particularly spectacular but it was incredible. The connection was stronger than I imagined it could have been and we even shared a kiss! It was great!
We continued to message and a couple of days later he went away on a holiday. At times my doubt crept back in but I kept strong. He came home for two nights and went away again. This was a real test for me. I just knew in my heart that this man was the man I would marry. I had to trust in God and the Universe and our connection. I knew, like I knew, like I knew.
When he finished that trip and was back home he messaged me. He couldn’t wait to see me and had missed me. He messaged me all the time and wanted to call. He told me how much he had missed me and longed to see me! We arranged to meet that very weekend and it was magical. When we hugged it was like our souls connected. Being with him and in his space felt so familiar. I felt at home with him, the feeling I’d always had made sense. It all made sense. That weekend I also met his parents, unplanned, and it was just perfect. We clicked and I felt like part of the family.
So in the last three months, we’ve pretty much moved in together. He’s incredible and is officially my boyfriend. I have complete trust in him and cannot wait to start my life with him. He’s met my brother and sister-in-law and he fits in so well with my family. We’ve met each others friends and he’s everything I’ve ever wanted and even more than I could have imagined to be true.
Thank you so much to the Universe for making this all possible. I trust in you completely and can’t wait for what’s next!