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From Fighting To Being Together In Twentyfour Hours!
Submitted by: Lucia L
Andalusia, Spain21 year old girl working on having a positive mindset!
So to make it short, I met a guy online and we started talking every single day for 2 months. He is funny, caring and he respects me a lot. Even though I was really scared of meeting him in real life, we ended up having a date one night and it was perfect! The only problem is that he lives two and a half hours away from where I live and he’s kind of known in my country because of his job. So he basically works a lot and travels a lot and hangs out with a lot of incredibly good looking women, which made me really scared and self-conscious. So of course all of my insecurities came into play and I started getting angry at him for not texting me back soon enough or for not coming to see me and what not. And let me tell you that have never been the jealous type before but for some reason I was going insane this time!
One day after having our third big fight over text in less than 3 weeks, he told me that he was getting tired of this and that he would rather be alone than having to hear false accusations. Of course I didn’t want to break up with him and I knew that it was my insecurities causing all of this. Instead of focusing on the good of the relationship I was focusing on the bad things that could happen!
So after that fight I calmed down and remembered The Magic book and the practice to heal relationships. So I sat down that night and wrote down all of the things I loved about this guy, and I truly gave and felt gratitude for each one of those things. Then I went to sleep.
The following day he talked to me as if nothing had happened and although he was extremely busy that week, he made time for me and asked me to go over to his house! I thought I was not gonna be seeing him for another 2 weeks but he managed to make some time for me because he knew I was having a bad time with the distance issue.
I went from thinking he was going to break up with me to seeing him for a whole day in less than 24 hours, just by giving thanks for the things I liked about him!
Thank you to The Secret team for sharing The Secret with us. Thank you to all of those who share their stories here, you definitely keep my faith up!