Believe and let go! Loving life.:)
I was introduced to the Secret 3 years ago but just used it as a one time thing, but never really started to understand until about 5 months ago. But I can say I’ve been working closely with the Secret for the past 20 days. The most important thing I wanted to improve in my life was my attitude towards life, to make things easy and effortless and be a happy and positive like the way it is explained in the Secret.
I’ve been seeing my boyfriend for a year and a half and we’ve had the best times together. We were sure we were going to be with each other and share the future together. Eventually things started to change because I was always focusing on the negative aspects of our relationship and always doubted us and focused on things I did not want for us. It went on for 4 months and finally he wanted to take a break and wanted to end things. I felt helpless and I obviously knew this was not meant to be and that we are meant to be together after all the beautiful times and the special bond we shared. I knew this relationship was it and we were meant to marry and have a easy happy life together! I wasn’t willing to let go. I was devastated for 3 days and we decided to take a break and see what happens.I knew I attracted all the events because of the negative attitude and fear I had towards things. I made my mind believe things and thing negative thought. It was like a virus and I’d gotten to a point where it drew me crazy because I would make assumptions based on the little things I knew and make up my negative stories which led to creating negative emotions towards him.
He left for a break for 15 days. I used this time to get myself together and focus on what I want and focus on me and being happy. Before this I used to focus on changing him which was not the right thing to do. The most important person in a relationship is you. I read all the stories here that inspired me who’s turned things around magically. I watched the movie that gave me and strengthened the belief. I knew I could do it. I let go from being the person who used to feel guilty and seeking forgiveness and being sorry about the state and feeling helpless. I started making a list of things I was thankful for. All the beautiful times we shared to let me change my emotions and see the positive things in him. I focused all my attention on setting this right. I would visualize him calling me and telling me he loved me( Which he never did much towards the end), missed me and couldn’t wait to see me and imagine us being happy together. I somehow felt good. I was busy the last week for an event and I was engrossed in it. So I would ask and let go. Guess what? He called me and told me the exact same words how I’d visualized it. And it made me so happy. He started talking about us spending time when he’s back and doing fun things. I was so happy to hear these as I would have never expected him to say these words before he left. He got back 2 days ago and we were so happy to see each other. I can see the difference and all the life and love back in our lives. Sometimes I get that bit of doubt and fear I had 15 days ago, I try to brush it off and focus on what I want. But I know if I created magic once pushing off the negativity in me it should be easy for me to stay on track now that I’m a much better person. I am working more on having 100 % faith and belief, but I know the Secret works when you believe in it 100 percent. And when you have this belief , it’s the best feeling ever and makes you so happy.
Even during this time though I was just focusing on my relationship, it made me so happy and excited about life and happy that I even got a job offer that I wanted and I feel things are falling into place. I am so much more a happier positive person. My boyfriend tells me after he got back that I even have this glow on my face. I can’t be more thankful to The Secret, the Universe and Rhonda.
The Secret freed me from all the believes I had and made me believe in myself and the Universe more. I feel so free and relaxed. I am so much the person I’ve always wanted to be who I deserve to be. I deserve all the things I want. I finally found myself and I am the person I always wished to be. I am living in the magic of life.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you for everything in my life now.