I was 37 and single. I was complaining over the phone to my best friend who lives in California. I said, “I can’t find a nice guy.” Joe then said to me, “I don’t know, it seems like the guys you’ve dated are nice enough, they’re just not what you actually want. You pray and have faith, why not ask for what you really want in a future husband?” Something in me just clicked!

In true teacher form, I got lined paper with the 3 holes on the left and I made my list! I was incredibly specific. I did not skip lines. I made 3 columns and then turned the paper over and did 3 more columns of traits my husband should have. For 3 years I had that list on my nightstand, and I would take it out periodically and read it.

Fast forward. I was 39 and went on a date with a man I met on a online dating site. It was love at first sight! After dating him a bit I felt comfortable telling him about the list. I said you are actually everything on my list except that you’re probably not a Taurus.” He replied, “I am a Taurus I was born in May.” I didn’t believe it. He had to show me his driver’s license. I got so excited I told him I want to show him my list. When I went to get the list it wasn’t on my nightstand! I took everything out of my nightstand, not that I ever had much in there. Mind you, I lived by myself, I didn’t even own a cat! All of a sudden he looks at me and says, “The list in probably not there because maybe it’s the Universe’s way of saying to you, that you no longer need the list, I’m here.”

A year later we married. My husband is my Prince Charming. He is all 120 traits I desired and I believe that I attracted and manifested him into my life. This to me is proof that if you have the courage to ask for what you really want, the Universe will provide it!