I met Charlie through a co-worker at a get together. We hit it off right away and we ended up spending time together until 3:30am, just talking, dancing, and yes, kissing. To make a long story short we began a “relationship” really quick and were spending a lot of time together.

He had been in a long term relationship with someone that was extremely jealous and controlling; since then he had proudly declared that he would never be in any kind of relationship with anyone EVER!

After a couple of months of spending time together, I decided to end our association. He began to compare me with other women he had been with, to his ex-wife, and I just could not handle it. I gave him a blessing and walked out.

Day after day I visualized us talking, and sending him “don’t be afraid, you can trust me. You will be safe with me” feelings. I wrote on my journal over and over that we were happy together. I even pretended to talk to him on the phone! It was so difficult not to call him, text him or stop by his work… that was the hardest part. I did not ask his friends how he was doing. I mean I did nothing except visualized, felt it in my heart, thanked the Universe for a second chance, and waited.

Three months of not hearing from him at all, my phone rang and it was him! I almost fell down when I looked at the phone =). He asked me how I was doing, and we talked for almost two hours. I did not tell him that I missed him, or that I wanted us to get back together, I just acted like we were good friends. Before we hung up, he apologized for the way he acted, said that he realized I was a great woman, and if I would like to go out with him sometime!! Of course I said yes, I did not hesitate. We are having dinner tonight and I am just so excited that it finally came to pass.

Just hang on, believe, and wait… wait and wait. It will happen!