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Valentine’s Day Every Single Day!
Submitted by: Chrissy S.
AustraliaI've dabbled with spirituality over the years, but it was The Secret that really struck a chord with me, and practising the LOA transformed my love life and career in ways I could never have imagined. Being an engineer, I thought I had a good grasp and understanding of energy and vibration in the world around us, but I had never come across a book that explained how it applies to all things we manifest either deliberately created or unconsciously allowed in in our lives, in such a practical way.
I had been single for over a year, the longest dry spell in a decade. However, it was at this time that I did the deepest soul-searching, reading spirituality books and stumbled across The Secret.
The light bulb moment happened when I realised I had been focusing too much on what I didn’t want. For so long, I had been blaming and “working through” childhood abuse issues, as I had been told to do by well-meaning counsellors. After reading The Secret I realised why I was attracting the same kind of relationships, as I was focusing on the “don’t wants” and essentially the past, and not enough on me.
So I began to focus on what I did want in a partner; Everything from his personality and values, to the dark hair and blue eyes he would have. I was even drawn to read romance novels for the first time in my life, which put me in a romantic state. I even started to sleep on “my” side of the bed, all the while enjoying my own company and living alone, though never lonely. I really think this was the trick, to just love and feel whole myself, while being expectant and eager of “The One” to be magnetized into my life.
Long story short, I met “The One” within 2 months, got engaged within 3 months after our first date and married within 2 years. He is everything I had dreamt of and more, down to the brown hair and blue eyes. We discovered our lives before we met were so serendipitous, everything from my aunt having met him 23 years prior, to him and I dating people with our respective names that we had both met on separate Contiki tours, to him and I starting to work for the same company within weeks of each other 3 years prior, though we never crossed paths until 3 years after. I guess such “coincidences” are another way the Universe surprises and delights you in ways you least expect!
Thank you Rhonda for making The Secret so accessible! I truly discovered how and why to love myself and life, and that life can be magic if we go about it more consciously. To top it off, I am just so blessed to have a Valentine to share it with every single day.