This is my first story on here and the manifestation that I am most proud of! I first heard about The Secret when I was much younger but I did not read the book until 2014 when I used it to manifest my dream partner. I wrote a list of qualities I wanted in my next girlfriend and spent a few days preparing my life as if she was in it, as The Secret instructed. I made space for her clothes in my wardrobe, I assigned her a drawer in my room and always made sure I didn’t put my bag on the passenger seat in the car because I knew that it was ‘her’ seat. When I had moments of free time I imagined texting her and I imagined holding her at night. I kept this up for about a week and then gradually I forgot about it. I went on with my life and had as much fun as I could. I saw friends, went to the gym and hung out with my family.

About 6 months later I was in a new relationship and I found the list of “qualities” that I had written. And wouldn’t you know it, my new partner had every single thing on that list, except for two things. Both of which she developed throughout our relationship, without my encouragement or saying anything! I was blown away, especially since I had forgotten about the list entirely!

Here’s a few tips for everyone:

 I read The Secret and I wrote down exactly what I wanted in a new partner, including looks and personality. I was specific as I wanted to be.

 For a week or so I read over those qualities and imagined her with me and how I would feel. I  arranged everything in my life as if she was there with me now.

 Then I forgot about it and became as happy in my life as I could. I found distractions in my work, my friends and my family.

 I felt good. When I reflect upon that time in my life I felt happy already and a new partner would just be a bonus. Yes, there were times when I felt a little lonely but I didn’t dwell on it. I also felt good about myself, I felt confident and I felt like I deserved to have this new person.

I think the most important thing for me were these last two parts. Firstly, it’s important to feel good. Do things that make you happy, no matter how selfish or unrelated they are to what you want. I found happiness in my friends, my family and my job.

Secondly, because I was so distracted by my life as it was and how much I was enjoying myself, I forgot what I had even asked for. And as I forgot about what I had asked for, it actually meant I was letting go of any worry. I wasn’t constantly questioning “How?”  I got out of my own way and stopped worrying, allowing it to come to me.

Thank you!