I’ve been trying to manifest an ex back in my life, and although I’ve been doing everything right it sometimes seem as though it’s not working and that he’s not likely to come back. This, can sometimes be frustrating but I try to center myself whenever I feel like giving up.

The other day, I came across a post on Reddit and the technique said to verbally change the reality you’re in, ie. state: “I seem to be in a reality where people are showing me a lot of love. I don’t know how I got here but I am in this reality.”. So I decided to give it a shot.

I said, “I seem to be in a reality where eligible bachelors are wanting to commit to me.”. I immediately got back on the dating apps and saw someone I had gone on one date with last year. I just laughed and thought, there’s no way he’d swiped right again because there was no chemistry between us. So I swiped left.

Funnily, a few minutes later, he sends me a message on Whatsapp saying that he saw my profile and doesn’t know why we never followed up. Now, he was an older gentleman who was very successful and good looking, and had taken me out on an extremely fancy dinner date but I was just not interested. So I told him straight up, I had a good time but I think there just wasn’t any chemistry. He still kept trying.

It’s completely crazy how the Universe gave me this right after I switched my thoughts from “I’ll always be alone” to “All these eligible bachelors want to commit to me”. It’s insane in the best way. I’m totally relaxed now with no anxiety or pressure about my ex because I can trust in the Universe. I can let go and know that whatever the outcome is, its going to be better that I could possibly imagine.