I’ve been following The Secret for over 8 years. The three books sit proudly on my bookcase, however I hadn’t felt the need to ready them until November this year which was a mistake. I realize now we need to use the law of attraction every single day to have what our hearts desire.

In July last year I had a terrible time at work. I was being bullied, harassed and sexually discriminated against. This treatment went on for a year before I found the courage to stand up and take action by following my company’s grievance procedures.

I know now that I allowed the negativity that came from the situation to manifest by not taking action in the beginning. I can see looking back how one negative thought or feelings send many more back in your direction. Despite having the courage to stand up for myself, my employer did nothing to help me but instead made me feel like I was a problem for speaking up. I realized I had believed that this would be the case as I worked in a male dominated environment and any grievances raised in the four years I worked there were never taken seriously.

I began to fall into depression and things got really bad in my home life. I felt like my partner who I loved dearly wasn’t supporting me and in effect I pushed him away to the point where he told me he was no longer in love with me in October. We decided to split up. I felt completely like I’d lost everything.

I made the usual mistake of calling him and begging him to come home, emailing him how sorry I was and crying desperately every night. He was getting really angry with me and said some really horrible things to me. I was so sad because he said he was going away to be with his family over Christmas from the 18th December. I was so hurt that we wouldn’t be together for Christmas.

Until I remembered The Secret.

I read the book 3 times cover to cover and suddenly I realized I had brought the relationship breakdown and the lack of support from my employer on myself. The reason being I had just focused on negativity the whole time.

So I decided I would apply The Secret and law of attraction. I forced myself to feel love in my heart, for myself and every single being I knew. I stopped contacting my ex and started writing in my journal about how much I loved him. How he was back home with me. How we were so happy and in love, how our relationship was so easy and stronger now. All the things I loved about us and the special Christmas we would have together. I put photos of us beside my bed and said goodnight to him every night and sent my love to him. There were times I struggled to trust, to believe, to stop myself crying and feeling low. But I managed because deep down I knew the universe would provide.

After less than a week of applying The Secret he came round out of the blue with a huge bunch of flowers and said he was so sorry and he wanted to be with me!! I was the only girl for him!

I was so happy and I just knew then I have to keep applying The Secret to every area of my life.

I recommend everyone to use The Secret throughout their life. I’ve gifted this book to many of my family and friends and just want to keep sharing it.