Sweet Like Sunday Morning.
First, I would like to thank Ms. Rhonda and all of the beautiful people who help make The Secret come to life.
During this last year, I read all the books and I have to say my life has changed tremendously in so many areas. I’ve manifested the good and the bad but I know now how to manifest on purpose and how to redirect my thoughts.
I’ve been dating this guy for over year and we have had our share of ups and downs. I had a lot of negative thoughts being with him, so much so that I gave myself headaches. My goodness I was so insecure. I would always wait for the other shoe to drop.
Fast forward. I watched “The Secret” movie and read all of the books and noticed I had the power. Then our relationship turned amazing. I got everything I wanted by following the practices in “The Magic”. However, it didn’t last because I started reverting back to my old ways and things started to go downhill.
Three months ago, I was complaining to my friends about how unhappy I was, how sexless the relationship had become and how I wasn’t getting enough of anything. It seemed like the more I complained and said these things, the more distant he became and I got even less.
Then the other day, I woke up all positive, but I had this reoccurring thought in my head saying, “He’s going to say he’s unhappy and Ii’s going to be another week of no sex.” He then wakes up 30 minutes after me and was in such a mood, he said: “I’m very unhappy in this relationship and have been for the past 2 months.” I was shocked, but I also knew that what we focus on expands, having learned a great deal from practicing LOA. I wasn’t sad about it, I just asked did he want to date other people; he said no, he just needed a break. I said okay.
A thought came to me, I am not the center of his unhappiness and I will not change myself or be responsible to play such a big role in someone’s life because happiness is intrinsic and I also knew I had created this. Instead of acting out of desperation like I usually would to “fix” us, I just started to focus on myself. I continued working out, loving myself more, going out and enjoying myself. I did this for the entire past weekend after he stated his unhappiness on Friday. I became very happy, especially while going out with my cousins to the town festival. I got home and thought about if I wanted to keep or not keep this relationship. I said that I would focus on me and being the best version of me, thinking good thoughts, and being joyful. Whoever meets my vibration, whether it’s him or someone new, I will be fine with.
I did the 55*5 method. I wrote down how truly grateful I was for his commitment to making our relationship more beautiful and then I started playing loving music while creating my vision board. I felt so happy.
We hadn’t seen much of each other since Friday and this was now Sunday. Then he walked in the door and we were kind to each other. Later, I talked about how much I had wanted to go out with my cousin to a particular place. To my surprise, he said okay, let’s go. He showered, dressed real nice, waited patiently on me to get dressed and we went out. Mind you we hadn’t gone out in a while and this had been one of my many complaints. He paid for everything and usually, we had always split certain things. When we got home we were loving and shared a lot of intimacy. When the roosters started to crow, we had some of the best sex. I mean, I was shocked at how in just two days, his vibe had totally changed.
You guys, all you have to do is change your story. Instead of me repeating in my head what he said to me about being unhappy, I just said the opposite and changed my story. I will continue to stay upbeat and watch my thoughts. I’m creating my own reality and the fact that I have the power over that feels amazing!
Magic Dust to you all! Thank you, thank you, thank you!