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Shy Guy Now Has The Best Social Life.
Submitted by: Mister Happy
France (Lille)17 year old boy.
When I was a kid, I was very shy and had no friends. I was bullied by other kids. Then, I went to college after I went to high school. I didn’t know anybody. This year I was not bullied but I still did not have friends, I was sitting alone watching other guys having fun with girls. I was really feeling bad when I saw them having fun. At that time, I was so shy that walking in school was a big effort, so sometimes I just stayed in front of the classroom and waited for the bell to ring. At that time I just wanted to become someone popular. I even wanted to create a machine that could go back in the past so I could correct my mistakes and make a lot of friends.
That same year, I discovered an audiobook called ‘’The Power Of Your Subconscious by Joseph Murphy’’; I decided to click on it. Joseph said that all the things you put in your subconscious mind is reproduced in your real life. So, at that moment, I decided to put only a good image of myself surrounded by a lot of friends in my subconscious. I was saying to myself this method looks like the law of attraction. I had learned about the law of attraction when I was 13 when I was watching a video. But the man who was explaining it was not very inspiring, so I said to myself that this was bullshit. If I had fallen on the actual video The Secret, I would have been very inspired.
I decided to search for the law of attraction again on YouTube, and I found The Secret and I really was so inspired. I wanted to know more about the law of attraction, and then I found stuff from Abraham Hicks. I now better understand the law of attraction and how to use it. It was not only the image but also the emotion.
Now, I am 17 years old and starting a new year. I began to focus on only the things I love. I love it when girls watch me. I love seeing people laughing, playing, and talking together. I love seeing guys having a lot of success with girls.
After seven months, things started to change in my life. I know it has taken a lot of time because of 15 years of negative thoughts vs 7 months of positive thoughts. Now people have invited me to kitesurf, play basketball, and drive motocross, which I love. Before I had only 30 friends on Facebook, now I have 110 friends. Girls talk to me and say ‘’Hi, what is your name?’’ I even had two girlfriends this year. Sometimes, I see some guy get bullied, and I tell myself that I have some old negative thoughts that are still in me so I do not focus on it or keep negative thoughts about it. I am still a shy guy, but I have the best social life ever.