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Saved My Ph.D.
Submitted by: Dr. Neema
IndiaA believer in the law of attraction.
Hello friends, after a long time I am writing a story here. This story I am writing is being written after one month of completing my Ph.D.
So, coming straight to my story. I had been so lucky to get admission to IIT without even thinking that I really wanted to go there; I just wanted an admission on time. Initially, my relationship with my guide was really good. Slowly it declined but I did not know how my relationship was getting sour with her. Even though I was working hard, I was still missing something in her eyes. There was a time when she did not even want me to work in her lab anymore. I had reached a stage where completing my Ph.D. was in danger. By that time, I had already ordered The Magic book. So, I was determined to work hard and save myself, which I did.
The next task was to improve my relationship with her. So instead of talking straight to her and making things worse, I decided to imagine that things had already improved. Slowly again, things started improving, and just with my thoughts, the relationship improved between us. But then I stopped practicing using gratitude, and once again, I was off track. And once again, I was asked to leave the lab. But this time, I was more determined to solve things between us.
Soon things started to fall back on track. I met and discussed things with another Sir. He guided me and assured me that things would be fine. I decided to change the topic instead of leaving the lab. I told ma’am that Sir was ready to guide me. So she gave her nod to join his lab. Even after joining his lab, she was still my guide, and Sir was my co-guide. Since I was working in his lab, she wanted him to be my guide and herself to be a co-guide. Maybe because she still had doubts about my potential.
So, after one year of joining Sir’s lab, she asked Sir to be my guide and we completed the formalities. After that, Sir had become my guide, and she was the co-guide. As my work was progressing, she started noticing my potential. Her attitude started changing towards me. Before, she had a lot of doubts about me, but later she started trusting me. Soon, her behavior became completely normal to me. She praised me many times secretly to Sir. Sir was also happy to see her change of heart.
Finally, the day came when I had to defend my thesis. After the presentation was over, she said that she was glad that I was completing my Ph.D. from here, and I felt so happy! Thank you, thank you, thank you!
I am highly grateful to my Sir for supporting me when I needed someone’s support the most. I am also grateful to the Universe for bringing a change in the heart of that ma’am that, in the end, everything became normal between us. Magical blessings to everyone. Thank you, thank you, thank you!