I hardly believed in love at first sight until I met him, but since the very day I saw him my soul recognized my soul mate, while consciously I was still unaware of it. This happened towards the end of 2007. Without knowing about ‘The Secret,’ I’d applied it in my life.

I’d never had any success in love life until this happened, and now I realize that it was because I used to crave someone so much whenever I liked them. But when I met him, I had seen the worst segment of my life and so I hardly focused on him being the most perfect guy for me, as if specially designed for me, or wanting to date him. His entry in my life so beautifully started healing me, and his mere presence made me feel so secure and complete. And I just loved that part of our togetherness. He was in a relationship (a strained one, on the verge of a break-up, but I was unaware of this), and he used to talk about his girlfriend a lot. So the situation was such that I was thrilled with his presence in my life and it was like star-worship for me, but I never focused on acquiring or possessing him (so no reason for craving or being sad about it). I just loved him immensely, and so much that all I could focus on was loving him more and more. My friends use to be concerned, but I told them that I loved him so much that I just enjoyed the process of loving him and it never occurred to me that I could not have him.

I had never been so happy and satisfied in my life. And when my happiness was at its peak-point (after four months of knowing him), he proposed me!!! I received, just because I used ‘The Power’ unknowingly. I just loved him immensely!!! So much that I wanted him to be happy even if it was with someone else! Unconditional, pure, innocent, child-like LOVE is what I gave, and MY MOST PERFECT relationship is what the UNIVERSE returned!!

Now comes the tricky part. Out of my own thoughts I created my own hell. When he loved me the most, loved me the best, I had doubts, and within four months into the best relationship that could ever be, we separated. I thought he left and he thought I did, and we both in our own ways were trying to get back with so much love, but my grief at the thought of losing him was so severe that neither of us could make out the fact that the other was trying as hard to get back as the other, and it got so dirty and ugly. We were separated for four years, with ups and downs of getting back and drifting apart in this span of those four years.

Somewhere near the end of 2009 I came across The Secret. I read a lot and just happened to buy the book without knowing what it was. I had attracted this book to me, since I so firmly believed in the fact that this relationship was meant to be. In each and every cell of my body I knew this, and by nature I am an extra-optimist, so I kept trying and did everything from astrological counseling to meditation. Since I was attracting a way, I found one, and that’s – “The Secret”!!

It helped me realize that I was desperately trying to make it work, and I was grieving, thus putting lots of negative energy into it. I must say, it took a lot of time to change myself and get back on a positive frequency. I used all aspects of it, asking, believing, receiving, thanking, visualizing, everything, and the result was that everything around me changed, everything that had shattered in my personal life apart from him got better and best. But he was still away.

But I kept faith and then suddenly one day I realized that I was doing everything but not one major thing that I loved doing – loving him immensely. I was sending love and visualizing us in love, but it was to get him, it was result-oriented. My unconditional love like before was lost. And the day I realized it, all the love for him started flowing like a river inside me, as never before! I realized that I missed doing this so much, without waiting for the result; I just loved and loved and loved. It seemed like an entire Universe full of love was inside me for him, which got unleashed!

I just did this for one day, but it was so strong that he called me the next day (i.e. TODAY!!!) and the first thing he said is, “I love you,” something he has felt but not said for the past four years!!! And then to my utter surprise he asked if I’d marry him!! I was speechless!! This is the best day of my life!!I am so happy and reassured that love itself is the strongest power, I was just one step away from my dream, and that beautiful step was PURE LOVE!!

Thank you!! Thank you so much all of you. Your stories have kept me going for such a long time, and kept inspiring me to continue! Thanks Ronda, I owe you all that I have today. God Bless you and everyone associated with The Secret!! I have MY MOST PERFECT RELATIONSHIP again and FOREVER!!

Thank you world, thank you Universe… Love you. Muah!!!