After feeling relatively hopeless after a few failed relationships in my my twenties, and a number of dates and ‘faux’ emotional based relationships with men who were emotionally unable to commit, I began to fear that I was always going to feel emotionally flawed and die alone.

I came onto The Secret after falling off the gratitude wagon and read some tales of people who had used The Power and succeeded. I began with vigour to only focus and talk about what I wanted in a boyfriend.

I realized all of the juxtapositions I was causing in my life, the moaning about what I was receiving and seeing in the men around me, all the reason’s why I was single and it wasn’t my fault, before I took responsibility for my actions and began to feel grateful.

I became grateful for what I was seeing and I liked and focused on that, whether in real life, TV programmes or books and started to sculpt and visualize and believe. The toughest thing was to believe I could be happier in a relationship than alone, but I believed in myself and realized I was worthy of love.

Boom! I was just walking around 2 weeks after and people started changing how they were towards me. They were being lovely, caring and less hostile if we were in a tenuous relationship. New options were coming to me.

I met my boyfriend and fell in love and honestly feel safe, trusted and beautiful. He adds to my life and and completes all of the lists that I had of what I wanted in my mind because I chose to be grateful and worked hard to only focus on the good.

Preserve in gratitude.

Laura