I still remember I was introduced to this book by a lady from my work place when I was depressed about how my life was going in regards to my health and wanting to get pregnant at the time. That lovely lady briefly summarized about what The Secret is about and was even kind enough to provide examples like to pretend you are already pregnant and shop for baby clothes and walk around the house as if you have huge tummy, etc.
I was seriously thinking this is crazy but I felt so happy just visualizing it. I borrowed the book from her and started reading it. Not a day passed by with out me reading at least 10 pages. It had me hooked. I started to visualize and design my mobile wallpaper with happy babies and a photo of me and my hubby and a beautiful quote from the book to keep me positive all the time.
During this period I started my IVF treatment and I had also signed up to an IVF forum as well. Reading that some people went through bad times and almost 2 to 7 cycles of IVF was making me nervous and made me wonder if I would had to go through that many,too!
Thankfully I had The Secret to be positive. I visualized every single day of all the happiness I would have and I was in happy tears by the end of each visualization. I visualized happiness and the baby in me as I had every needle and medication needed at that time. I even designed a picture of myself with a huge tummy with a baby and it said “I am pregnant”, a picture of my hubby and me hugging with my pregnant tummy. And then, a picture of my husband and myself with our blessed baby. You could say this was my vision board on my iPad. My husband had seeing a “different me” through this one month and he was often telling me to please be practical. He didn’t believe me at all. I used to look at my vision board on my iPad every day and close my eyes for at least 2 to 3 minutes and visualize.
Just before I had my pregnancy blood test after almost a month of treatment I visualized that I will get the good news and my hubby with burst into happy tears saying “Now I have my own family on the way.”
That afternoon after my blood test I called the clinic to ask for the news and it was what I expected!
I am 4 weeks and 2 days pregnant!!
When I told my husband the good news he burst out in tears like a small child and hugged me and said “We are having our own family.” Exactly as I visualized!!
I have my first ever scan in 2 weeks time and I’m being as positive as ever as it is a crucial scan to see where the egg has implanted. The rest of my vision board picture will come alive in the next following months.
I’m so grateful that I was introduced to this book. I’m changing my life gradually. My main goal is to change my husband to thinking positively. I had told him that if we receive the good news he must read The Secret book. He agreed to it and now he must read it! That will change me to having my own visual board in my room instead of just on the iPad.
I wish I had my own copy of the book as I have to return this copy to my colleague.
Thank you so much! I look forward to so much more joy and abundance in my life through this powerful tool.