Patience Is Key.
Hi everyone. I won’t dig in to the details as it would take maybe a whole of book to journal my journey about my love, but l want to share my story.
I asked for “the one” in June 2007, when l was just 15 years old. But feeling like an old soul waiting for her other half, l thought I was away from him for too long now and it’s time he finally enter my life. We must start living out our life together and growing old together, as they say.
The Universe said, your wish is my command. He arrived. Together for nine years and four months we saw many of upheavals, good and bad, high and low. We even broke up twice. For almost 2 years of those years we weren’t even officially together, were back and forth. But something in my heart just would not give up on him. Neither would he. Long distance, dating others, every phase we went through but we couldn’t get the other out of our hearts. We got angry, even would fight, but at the end we would always come back to each other.
I finally understood that we are meant to be together in this lifetime. To work everything out and enjoy life to it’s fullest together. I asked the Universe to make us officially a couple. I finally wanted to get married to him, have a family with him, travel and grow old together. We also wanted to contribute to society as he is a doctor and I am a magistrate. So, l asked with all my heart. And bingo! On the night of 25th, December 2016, we met and he proposed to me for marriage.
It was the best day of my life. I waited almost a decade for it but still that moment was completely unexpected and unimaginable!
We eventually told our parents and unexpectedly, they were more than happy for us! In fact, they told us that deep down they knew we were always meant to be together and will always be. That they can’t picture us with anybody else than each other. Wow, we thought, that was cool. Really cool.
So the summary is, no matter who says what, listen to your heart. Challenges will always be there. But the best couple are the ones who go through everything that is meant to tear them apart but they come out of it even stronger. Thank you for patience reading. And remember, always listen to your heart, it’s the voice of your soul, which knows the hows, whens and whys.
Lots of love.