I was overwhelmed with depression and loneliness after ending a relationship that lasted on and off for almost a decade. Getting over him was the hardest thing I had to do.

I kept thinking I was ready to find love again, but every single relationship I tried would abruptly end in 3 months. Happened all the time…I thought I was cursed.

But one day, on a Navy trip to San Diego, I met my very own sailor. He made my heart melt as I got lost in his deep blue eyes. For the next couple of days that I was there, we hung out and instantly I fell for him harder than I knew possible. He stayed in California, his home, and I went back to mine in Texas.

We stayed in touch, crazy about each other, even went back and forth to visit each other. Then in early November, on our 3-month anniversary, it was my turn to visit him again. I got nervous, fearful, afraid, and thinking negative ‘Here comes the 3-month mark. Is it going to happen again?’ And guess what? It did. We had a horrible weekend together and fell out of touch, doubting our relationship.

Then it hit me. As much as I didn’t want to lose him, I brought it upon me for just thinking it. Immediately, I went back to my book and watched the DVD religiously for days. Telling myself, you’re breaking this pattern and keeping this guy forever. For the days to follow, I did not let any single negative thought in my life: I avoided negative people, only watched comedies, read positive books and inspirational quotes constantly. And before I knew it, he contacted me again. Ready and determined to keep our love going and reignite that passion once again.

We are now happily together, and very soon I will be moving to California to be with him. He is everything I ever wanted since I was a little girl. A tall, handsome men with beautiful blue eyes who loves me very much. All I wanted and everything I got.

Thanks to God and The Universe for bringing us together and keeping us together for many more years to come.