Never Stop Believing In The Magic Of Love.
It is unbelievable when I realise the beautiful life I am living right now; It is like an insane dream came true. My life has not always been this way, especially not my love life. I had been in a continuous series of abusive relationships. It took me years to really understand and apply The Secret to my life and really see The Magic take place in all the different phases of my life. In this testimonial I would like to focus more on how I finally found love.
I was introduced to The Secret by a colleague in the year 2014. I was a bit sceptical in the beginning and eventually found it ridiculous. My love life was a disaster; I was in a relationship that was only one sided. My boyfriend of that time saw no future in me, yet he shamelessly took advantage of me in various ways for the following two years. Slowly with time I started reading printouts of The Secret Scrolls that my friend left for me. It finally grabbed my attention. I wanted badly to own the book titled The Magic. One fine day I was at Mumbai’s airport and I saw The Secret books on the bookstore’s shelf. I searched with all my heart, praying to find The Magic. And yes, there was one last copy lying behind all the other books. All happy, I started applying The Secret to my life. I started to feel better, everything was falling into place, my career took a new turn, I got a permanent job, etc., but my love life was still a mess. I couldn’t understand what was I doing wrong? After 2 years I went through a bad breakup followed by depression.
I never stopped believing in love, for me love did exist and I knew I would find it someday, even if all my friends were getting into relationships, engaged or married already. The thing was I was still emotionally attached to my ex and longed for him to come back to me. I wrote my wish list and I wrote his name. I said that I want XXX to love me, I want XXX and I to be together and get married. I didn’t realise at that time that I was doing it all wrong. In the meanwhile, I started dating another guy, but I still clung to things connected to my ex. This relationship as well didn’t work out and I was left more devastated.
One day I met my ex again and it hit me how stupid I was! I realized that this guy didn’t love me. How can I asked for someone who doesn’t respect me or love me to be a part of my life?. From that day on I completely let go of all things that were connected to him, I finally moved on. I realised he is not what I needed, wanted or deserved. I suddenly realised how much happier I was without him. I suddenly became very grateful for the amazing family, supportive friends, good job, autonomous life and the beautiful Island I lived on. I finally felt happy, free and good about myself and my life after so many years. I had finally let go of my past.
On that fateful day, I sat down all happy and light hearted after watching a number of positive videos and listening to nice music. I was actually smiling. I sat in my room and felt good about everything that surrounded me, even my mere existence. I sat down and wrote down how I wanted my dream guy to be. It started by: “My husband should be taller than me and I should feel like a child in his arms. I want my husband to accept me and understand me”, etc. I was all happy because I realised that I believed strongly in love and I believed strongly that I would meet someone who would love, cherish me and marry me. After finishing my list, I closed my eyes holding my gratitude stone in my hand and opening my arms as if surrendering myself to the Universe. I fell asleep imagining my dream husband, a tall and big guy.
The next morning, I woke up with a message from my best friend from India, who I hadn’t spoken to for the past 2 weeks. It said “Would you be my girlfriend?”. I sat on my bed in utter disbelief. This was insane.
Today it’s been a year since he proposed and we are already engaged and getting married in 4 months. I have found my tall, big, understanding, caring and loving guy. He is everything that I had written in my wish list. This is totally insane. I believed in love and above all I believe in the power that our thoughts and belief can have over our life.
Thank you so so so much Rhonda Bryne for reaching out to so many people all across the world and helping us in paving our way to happiness. My life in itself is a testimony of the power of The Magic and power of gratitude and faith.
“The truth is that the Universe has been answering you all your life, but you cannot receive the answers unless you are awake” – Rhonda Bryne.
He was here in front of my eyes for 7 years, but I never realised that the one I was looking for was him. The Universe sent so many messages to me but I was not ready to answer them as I was not awake. In 2014 I got to meet my now fiancée in India after 4 long years, as my doctor sent me for an eye operation in the same city he lives. In 2016, he called me down to India as a concerned friend, for a trip to make me feel better after my breakup. We knew each other inside out, yet we never looked at each other in that way. My life has been a fairy tale since he proposed to be my boyfriend. We have already met twice in our respective country over a year. I now proudly wear my engagement ring and I am so looking forward to my happily ever after. I can’t be thankful and grateful enough for this huge magic in my life. Thank you Universe. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!!!!