Never Give Up!
First, I would like to thank Rhonda Byrne and The Secret Team for everything that I have learned. My life has magically transformed!!
If you are thinking of giving up or thinking that the Law of Attraction doesn’t work, PLEASE READ THIS!!!
I used to view my whole life as a struggle, my parents divorced when I was young, I grew up in a abusive household, had to leave the college I loved because of money, and constantly had my heart broken. Needless to say, I was only focusing on the negative. I was battling depression about 3 years ago when I decided to go off all medicine and try to make myself happy. About 10 months ago, a close friend of mine and I started dating. We both fell in love. I had never felt this way about another person before and I knew in my heart this is the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. (Scary, since before this I did not want to get married).
Everything was great except I was still negative and I didn’t truly love myself, so I was very insecure and fearful that he would leave me. And guess what? He did. It was very difficult. We loved each other and he told me he knew I was the one but he could not handle me needing him all the time. For a few days, I was a wreck. Yet, I did not want to be a victim anymore and I still had hope in my heart that we would be together again. I read The Secret, The Power, and The Magic. I concentrated on the positive things in my life and focusing on loving myself. I put out to the universe that I wanted my job to be more enjoyable, my social life to blossom, financial abundance, perfect health and energy, and of course my perfect relationship. I made a vision board, put positive affirmations on my wall, and made it a point to visualize and trust the universe.
After 2 months, I finally got to a place where I truly love myself, I feel beautiful and lucky to have what I have. My job is so much fun and I have met amazing people. I get out of the house more and have endless amounts of energy! I have more and more money coming in and I no longer have anxiety over little things that do not matter! I am truly at peace and I only concentrate on the positive. I have even had people tell me my happiness is contagious 🙂 And on the relationship part… A week ago I was at a concert with a friend and all of a sudden HE IS STANDING RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME. We were both in shock and of course needed to talk right then and there. I told him pretty much everything I have typed previously, and he told me he could not stop thinking about me. We agreed we will get to know each other again and we are going to dinner this Friday!! I have very good feelings because I know since I am finally happy with myself that I can only bring good things to a relationship! And the best part is, is that I will be extremely happy if we get back together because I know I do not need a relationship but I want him in my life because I love him. But if he decides this is not what he wants, I will still be happy because I know I AM THE ONE THAT DECIDES MY HAPPINESS!!!!! Good luck to all of you and never give up because you really do control your life!!!!