I was in a very toxic relationship, physically and mentally, but I tried to keep going because I didn’t believe in giving up. I also wanted our son to have two parents.

After five years, I finally accepted in my heart what my mind already knew – I didn’t want that kind of relationship, and I had cried a lot when it hit me. After, I felt very calm and I started thinking of the perfect man for me. I was laying in bed and went through every detail of what I was looking for. After making my list mentally (taking off some things and adding others), I came up with a very specific list of what he would be like.

I don’t remember the timeline after making the list and meeting my perfect person, but I know it was less than four months. He was EVERYTHING on my list!! I didn’t realize it till later.

I have been with my husband for almost 11 years and it has passed in the blink of an eye! The Secret came out in 2006 and I made that list in 2001. I was floored when I watched The Secret for the first time. My heart was beating so hard and I knew everything they were talking about was real. I’ve asked others after if they have watched the dvd and have received different responses such as they don’t believe in it. But I know it is real because it happened to me. Thank you Rhonda for bringing out The Secret.

I tell my friends this story when I see they are down in their thinking – how I attracted my perfect mate. So many people have told us how we are so compatible and I am ever so grateful for him and everything in our lives. THANK-YOU!!!