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My Love is Mine
Submitted by: A believer
SingaporeSomeone who brought about everything in her life, both positive and negative, using The Secret unknowingly.
I have been a girl quite successful in life right from my childhood. I used to excel in every field of life, especially in my education and work, however I was very much against the idea of dating and relationships. I used to turn down every guy that came my way as I had a feeling that love and dating would not last long, and that I would be cheated. This was the belief instilled in me by my family, however I came across a guy who I was very interested in, from a similar family background. We made a perfect pair in every sense and I always used to wonder if it was possible to be with someone who made me complete in every sense. I knew that my parents and other members in the family would only be happy if I got married to him, however the negativity that I associated with relationships was still at the back of my mind.
After two whole years of a beautiful relationship, things started propping up. He told me for the first time that he had cheated on me, and I was shocked because he cheated on me with the very girl whom I was suspecting him to be hanging around with. I was both surprised at how it happened, and the negativity grew.
He asked me for a pardon and we somehow got back together, however I kept on imagining him cheating on me and I was sad and depressed. Every time I found the things to happen exactly in the same way as I had imagined, even with the minute details coming true. All this was before reading The Secret, however whenever I used to have these negative thoughts, I also at the same time believed that no matter what, he will be the one I am going to get married to. And I also believed that I would marry my first love.
It was on one of those blue and groggy days when I was craving to see a light at the end of the tunnel. Surprisingly, I was gifted The Secret by one of my best friends, who by the way, has still not read The Secret, even though she has a copy of her own! So I was meant to get this.
As I started reading The Secret, I was surprised to see how much I have used The Secret unknowingly throughout my life. Long story short, after reading The Secret and The Power, I was more than happy. My life was renewed, though I should say, it took time. A really long time for me to apply the concepts fully, but today I am happy. I am getting married to my first love and I am waiting eagerly for the day. Though he had a fair share of his mistakes, he loves me truly today. He wants to be with me for the rest of his life. He has realised his mistakes and he is very sad about what happened, but we have both decided not to live in the past and to look forward to our bright future. He loves me sincerely and I am happy to be with him.
All of this happened after I started being positive and applying The Secret. I am sure that I would have gotten married to him no matter what because I always believed that I would get married to my first love, but I would have spoiled our happiness with my negativity. The Secret really saved my life and our relationship. Thanks a ton!!