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Manifested My Ex Back And Self Care.
Submitted by: Mel, M
Los Angeles, CAI’m just a girl trying to figure life out. I’ve had my share of ups and downs throughout my life time. Growing up I always visualized having everything I wanted. I didn’t know I was using the LOA until I read The Secret a year ago and then everything made sense.
First, thank you God, and thank you for The Secret!
In September my world fell apart when the love of my life and I had a misunderstanding and we ended our relationship. It was the hardest break up I ever had. I was in bed for days and was crying for hours. I spent my time crying, calling in sick to work, and not seeing friends for days. My weight dropped to 95 pounds! A month after the break up, we began talking and briefly rekindled, only for the relationship to fall apart again, but this time, it was worse. We both said horrible things to one another.
I now understand why it fell apart again. I was still at a low vibration. I lost trust in him, in myself, in the relationship. I began to question him in ways that he did not deserve. That came from my insecurities which pushed him further away.
I realized I needed to change my thoughts and actions if I wanted this relationship to work or a new relationship to begin. I began with self love. I made an affirmation journal. I began by thanking God for my life and how wonderful it was. I thanked him for my relationship, acted and spoke ‘as if’. I began visualizing my relationship with him. I had moments of not wanting to leave the visualization process because it made me feel so happy in that moment. It felt so real. Then, I let it go.
It was hard at first. I am that person, when I order food, I do wait in worry that it will arrive just the way I ordered. So letting go was hard for me. But I knew I had to and so I did.
After months of suffering I realized I needed to know from God. I needed to know if this is going to work for me. One morning, as I was driving to work, I said to God, “Please show me a sign that I am on the right path and that my relationship with him will work.” I asked to see a Tennessee license plate since I am in California. And I kid you not, two minutes later, as I was changing my lane, be hold! The car in front of mine had a Tennessee license plate! My mouth dropped. My body just froze. In that moment I knew everything I was doing was right. I just needed to get out of the ‘asking’ phase and into the reserving or allowing phase. And so I did.
We are now communicating in a healthy way. I am not sure where this might go but I am hopeful and joyful of the outcome. I believe God is on my side.
If I can manifest this then you can manifest anything! This guy swore me off. He never wanted anything more to do with me. And now, we are talking and on the right path. I will write an updated version soon.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!