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Manifested 33 Years Of My Life.
Submitted by: Nan Sum
MongoliaI am a single mom to a 6 year old daughter.
I would like to express my gratitude to Ms. Rhonda Byrne. If I was not aware of the law of attraction, I would never be where I am today.
I am writing from Mongolia. It is my first story here and it just might be the first story from Mongolia. I used to think that one day I would write and submit my own story when I was reading all of The Secret Success Stories here. Thank you to those of you that have submitted your stories because they inspire me enormously. They have helped me to change my mood and also to get a new job at one of the biggest companies in the country.
I am 33 and a single mom to a 6 year old beautiful daughter. I grew up seeing violence and I was neglected and ignored. Every single thing that happened to me, happened to me because of my beliefs and thoughts. I would like to point out how the law of attraction still worked even when I was not aware of it. Everything in my life happened because of my thoughts, both the good things and the bad things.
Ever since I was in high school, I knew that I was going to be going overseas. Then I went to America for 3 years to study. I was also subconsciously choosing the bad guys in my life and that resulted in me being a single mom. I attracted all these guys into my life without knowing it. The difference between each guy was equal to changes in my perspectives and my firm beliefs in the type of guy I deserved and that I did not deserve the good guys. My belief was changing each time because I always wanted to label people.
I first heard about The Secret in 2011 when my brother asked our family to watch the movie. I was amazed by the movie but never implemented it in my life and forgot about it.
In 2014 I was feeling every negative aspect of life. I was lonely living in an apartment, with no money to go meet friends or to do anything. I started to study more about The Secret. I would like to point out a few things that happened in my life by deliberately implementing the law of attraction.
In 2015, I was working in a company that paid only enough to barely meet my expenses. So every morning I used to write my gratitude book about being hired by a foreign company that paid me 5 times more than what I was currently paid. Then I read 5 stories each morning posted on The Secret website. I could not forcefully make myself dream that big so I was writing so my subconscious could observe what I wanted. After a month of writing, I was contacted by an Australian company and was offered a job with a salary 8 times more than what I was being paid! Somehow during the process, I was calm and was not desperate about being hired by this company. That is exactly what some stories mentioned about being able to let it go. When you believe that you have something you don’t get obsessed over it.
At the beginning of 2016, I was 2 months pregnant at the time I was hired. During my pregnancy, I used to imagine what my daughter was like, fair with a tall nose and big eyes. Everything that I did not have. My skin was brown, and my eyes and nose were small. She was born exactly as I imagined her to look.
My weight did not go back to how I used to be and I got depressed about how my body changed after I give birth. 6 months after giving birth I went back to work to pay for my and my daughter’s needs. I was using the law of attraction again, occasionally writing about changing my company for an even better salary at the highest-paying company in the country. It was my dream to work there back in 2013. Without any thought, I applied for job openings in Jan 2019. I received no response so I stopped paying attention to that job and was only focusing on the company I was working for at that time. In April the company called me for an interview. There were about 5 candidates, and I made it. My salary was doubled yet the working conditions were hard with day and night shifts.
I started spending money without thinking. My health was going downhill. Additionally, I had a hard time coping with the people on the new team. They were very different from the company I used to work for. I had my ups and downs with the new company while raising my daughter alone.
I noticed that when I got what I wanted, I started to get away from appreciating what I had. In 2020, I re-read The Secret books and dug into what and how the subconscious mind works. I studied like I am crazy. In 2021, I started to read many self-help books. My perspective changed little by little. In mid-2022, I was sick of my working environment and had a back issue. I decided to quit the job and move to the capital city. I had an opportunity to work from a distance for about three months. I enrolled my daughter in one of the expensive foreign schools.
I had an issue of adapting to the new environment. The city I moved to was very expensive, very cold, and had bad traffic. I started imagining bad things happening to myself and my daughter. I noticed that I was forcing myself to think positively because I had anxiety from my childhood trauma. I was psychologically unstable. I was living in my comfort zone and never dared to dream big. I enrolled in online psychological training. I started how my childhood trauma influenced the bad thoughts I had in my life. I was always running away from negative feelings and would distract myself so I would not feel lonely. I have started working on my childhood traumas with 2 different psychiatrists. Every day I feel better and better and have never felt this free. I can be present when I am playing with my daughter. I have written my 5-year goals. I really appreciate where I am right now.
Thank you for your patience in reading my lifelong story. I hope this gives some of you a message or helps you to find your own method to implement the law of attraction. I beg your pardon for my English.
Thank you and Magic Dust to everyone.