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Submitted by: Indian girl
IndiaMy friends call me a die hard optimist and I try to stay as true as I can to that title.
I come from a traditional family where the love marriage concept is never allowed. During my college years I met this guy. He was nothing like the guy I wanted to marry but he was everything I needed. We became good friends and he proposed to me later. Aware that my parents would never agree, I told him I couldn’t marry him. Things became tough from there. We were still in college and were friends but his emotions complicated everything. One day I was discussing something with my best friend and she said if you love a guy and he is good guy, you should marry him. It is not easy to find love. I re-analysed my relationship and decided to talk to my parents regarding him. It turned out to be a disaster. My parents opposed it vehemently. We took different jobs and ended up in a long distance relationship that my parents were totally against.
Fast forward to 2 years of uncertainty and frustration when my boyfriend send me the link to The Secret. When I saw it, I found hope. I started practicing it. I even started telling other people about it. Still nothing was happening on the marriage front. I think the belief that my parents would not agree was so deeply rooted in me, I could not visualize us together in a true sense. But I kept reading The Secret stories. I bought all The Secret books. I got depressed many times but I went back to The Secret. Once I was about to sleep and I dreamed of our child. I wasn’t totally asleep so it was kind of a visualization and I felt the laughter of the child and his happiness. I held onto that visualization.
Time went by waiting for my parents to approve our relationship and trying to get a job in the city he was working in. One day I got a call for a job opportunity in that city. I had tried everything before and I never knew this company existed there. It is a big international company and I got a good position with better prospects.
And then my parents also had a change of heart. I shifted the job and we got married in 2 months. It was very hectic, I did not even have to plan everything but by some magic it turned out to be a dream wedding. I got the dress, the jewellery, everything! The exact style I had in mind at first go.
We are now completing a year of marriage together. Everything is beautiful in my life. Every morning and night I realize what a miracle it is to be married to him. I am so grateful. I keep on practising The Secret to receive more abundance and prosperity each day. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Thank you especially to Rhonda for sharing The Secret to the world and thank you so much to everyone who has posted their stories and kept me going.