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Love Corrects And Disciplines.
Submitted by: Gugu Surprise
South Africa, MpumalangaI am a second-year Law student.
I would like to thank Rhonda and God. Here’s my story.
I was in a relationship with this guy for 3 years. But I didn’t always enjoy my relationship because of the chaos of emotions I had in my previous relationships. I didn’t appreciate the things he did for me. All I could do was to complain, blame and attack him for lame reasons. I didn’t know that I attracted all these negative things around me. One day he decided to break it off and told me that he has found a new girlfriend. The strain between me and my boyfriend was high after the break up. During this period I was generally in “panic mode” which forced me to want to begin phoning, texting emails, and doing all sort of desperate things to stay in touch with my boyfriend after the breakup. I was always phoning, promising to change and asking him to come back. Furthermore, my boyfriend would get more angry and upset with me. I spend my idle hours searching online frantically for any new pictures or any news about his new relationship with the new girl.
One day a friend of mine introduce me to The Secret and I couldn’t get enough of it. It was my daily bread. I was gratefully and happy for the little things I had. I gave thanks for my relationship. After that I then decided to take time to be sincere with myself. I decided to have a go at certain self challenging routines that would develop me both physically and psychologically to assist me to be rebuild my self-esteem and allow me to really feel more joyful. I carefully considered getting involved in a fitness routine in my community gymnasium and registering with a singing program.
I was becoming more confident in myself with a brand new power and liveliness. I let go completely. I started to walk in love while being patient with my circumstances. I made sure I broke all my negative beliefs.
One day I got a call from my ex boyfriend and he said that he missed me. At first I didn’t believe it. I thought he was just playing around. Yesterday he said he broke it off with the other girl and that he had made the biggest mistake in his life for leaving me and that he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me.
To everyone reading this, never ever give up on you!