I was familiar with The Secret for a long time until I started to use it. I don’t know whether it was doubt or fear. On one hand, I didn’t believe it would work, it was just fairy tales. On the other hand, I was afraid it could actually work, and I was responsible for every single thing in my life. Oh my god!

But, after me and my ex first broke up, I thought I had nothing to lose. So I said to myself “He will text me saying he’s sorry and that he wants to meet me.” I forgot to say, we were pretty bad by then. We were not talking at all.

Then, the next day, I went out the gym and I was feeling good. Totally believing it. He first texted me about something else and I responded to him in the most loving way possible, because, after all, I was believing in the process. I had to think, to talk and to act as if it had already happened. And his answer to me was “I am sorry about what happened, can we meet to talk about things between us?”

I was amazed. Like, OMG, this can’t be luck, right?

We were getting along for a couple of months after that, but then doubt and fear started to pop up in my head, and guess what? Things got worse. We were apart again recently and I thought “He will text me for Christmas and send me an email with one of our songs”.

Some days went by with nothing new. Then one night I was with my friends and we saw each other. We had a fight. I was sad at first, but after that I decided I wouldn’t care. I would send love in my words to him, even if we would not be together anymore. I texted him saying I was sad about our fight but I wished him the best. He didn’t reply. Until Christmas. He texted me. I responded with love. We kept on talking that day. And, really, I’m not kidding, he sent me an email with one of our songs, because he said he would always remember the meaning it had for us. Can you believe it? It happened! I didn’t even know how or why, when I asked. I just had faith. Visualized. And most of all, I felt it!

I think that is the most difficult part in the process and that’s why it takes so long sometimes, you have to completely feel it, and completely believe it. It is the hardest part. But when you do, when you achieve it, it happens!