Letting Go Was All I Had To Do.
First off, I want to say a huge thank you to Rhonda and team. Without this book, I would probably would have messed up my life and would think I deserved it.
I met my guy in 2013. We were friends at first and a relationship developed. We were very happy and in love. He was afraid to get hurt so we decided to take things slower. He started distancing after a year and I let my negativity make things worse. Then he broke up with me out of the blue last year. I was a mess, a huge mess. I did everything I should not have. I cried my eyes out. I begged, pleaded and lost all my self respect. Then I started reading The Secret again and started applying it into my life. Nothing was working, nothing! Even when I was trying to be positive. So I let go and started the healing process
Fast forward to 3 months later, he came back and said he wanted another chance. I was surprised and so happy. I took him back. He broke up with me again just as I expected.
I decided that I deserved better. I decided that I no longer would put him on a pedestal and that I had to focus on myself. I had to love myself first, before anyone else can love me. I decided to no longer fight for him. I let it all go. It hurt, but I knew I was going to be okay. Weeks passed and I got better and better. I started going out and living my life. I started taking better care of myself. I started getting noticed by other guys. I started to feel confident again, something that he did not make me feel.
I ended up meeting another guy and decided to go for dinner with him. What’s the harm, right? It turned out to be a really good dinner. It felt nice to be liked again. That was the first time I did not feel anything for my ex. I started to feel as though he was just a memory.
That night when I came back from dinner with the new guy, my ex called me. It was unexpected. He said he had been feeling so strange, that suddenly he was thinking about me more and more. He asked if we could meet, and I made an excuse and wished him goodnight. Next day, he messaged me and said he just wanted to talk. I finally agreed. We met and he finally told me all the things I wanted to hear for the past 3 years. He told me that he loved me, but was starting to get scared thinking about the future, but he was no longer scared. I was happy, but I was not excited. I had already let go. I told him I needed to think about it.
Well I would like to say that I chose him, but I still have not made my decision. I just wanted to give you all hope, that things take time. We just have to trust that the universe knows what we want and it will deliver. We have to be patient and just trust. In the meantime, please focus on yourselves.