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Letting Go, Loving Myself And Trusting The Universe.

Submitted by: Suze

California

Learning to let go is the best decision I have made in a long time.

My soulmate and I broke up about a couple of weeks ago. It was the end of a three year relationship. He relocated a year ago and my insecurities and constant negativity got the best of us. Be careful of your thoughts and do not let them turn into reality. That is what happened to us.

Anyway, the clairvoyant I see was not available until June so the much needed guidance from my angels that I needed at this time was not available to me. The first week after the break up I was feeling suicidal. It was unexpected and deep down, I know he loves me. Things just got really bad.

The clairvoyant suggested I watch The Secret, so that is what I did all day. I also repurchased The Secret as I had read it many years ago. I also bought The Power and The Magic today as well as getting the Gratitude Journal.

I roamed around on the internet looking up articles on bringing back your ex using the LOA. There are so many different opinions out there. I came back to this website because the stories here seem a lot more credible and more encouraging. There are a lot of stories from people who got back together with their ex’s because they were finally able to let go of them, concentrate on themselves, learn to love themselves and give the person and relationship back to the Universe.

All day today I was trying to figure out how to exactly do that. I questioned how I was supposed to let him go and yet need to visualize him in my life, write in a journal like he is back in my life, etc. That was not really feeling like letting go for me.

What I did tonight is what I consider a great way of letting go of a person or relationship. I did not have any anger to let go of with my ex, as I love him unconditionally. So I did not need to go through that process first. I wrote a letter to the Universe and told the Universe what I wanted. I asked for what I wanted and I also said that when my ex contacts me to let me know within a month of contact if his intentions are sincere.

I then burned the letter, let go of the old relationship and of my ex and I felt a huge weight lifted from me. I do feel that he will ask me at some point to get back together. I believe that very deeply and I can manifest the feeling that it has happened. Learning to let go is the best decision I have made in a long time.

When I came back to the house and got settled in,  I looked up at the clock and the time was at 11:11. The Universe had just winked at me. I will share a follow-up story to this when I have one. Much love.

Thank you, thank you, thank you!

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