I started using The Secret to make my relationship better, and it did work. Then I stopped and became filled with negativity and the relationship ended. Then I started all over again to get my ex back. I desperately wanted what we had back, because it was so awesome. It worked and exactly at the time I wanted it to, and then it ended.

I am so glad it ended. Really guys, all I want to say is to please stop asking for that particular person back or that particular thing. We don’t really know what’s good for us, our wants may not even be what we need. After months of holding on to worry, fear, anger, sadness, and all the negativity you could possibly think of, I decided to finally let go of everything. I was exhausted, full of low self-esteem and low self worth. My life was a hot mess. It all ended when I decided to “let go and let God”.

All I asked for was to be happy, unconditionally happy. I told him to do whatever needed to be done in my life, and that I just want to be happy. That was the best decision I ever made. I am happy, so happy that sometimes I just sit down and start smiling for no reason. I am not saying I never have sad moments but my rebound from them is so quick, unlike before when I’d go for days being sad. It doesn’t exceed a day anymore for me. I’m still learning and I enjoy every second of it. It’s so crazy that I thank God for bad things that happen because I learn from them. Then they don’t seem bad anymore. I guess I got my ex back the first time because it was God’s way of telling me he could give me what I want, but he doesn’t because what I want may not be good for me, as getting him back did not even make me happy.

So guys, please just let go. You will be happy that you did.