After reading The Secret I have now decided to turn to a new thinking process. Most times in the past I would always think about being an amazing, single mum and giving my child the best I can give. I felt the feelings of being comforted with having a child without having any marriage stress. I would be happy as a single mum.

I have been decent all my life. I am in my early 30s and I have had no abortions, took no birth control pills, I was done with school and I am OK just like that. So, this guy comes along and I had felt so much pressure to date him. He had been asking me for a relationship since 2003, that according to him, was going to lead to marriage. So I finally gave him a chance in 2018. And boom! I got pregnant with him. He was excited at the news at first but then after about 2 months in, he suddenly begins to ask me to abort the baby. We did not have any misunderstandings leading to this.

So I am now on my walk towards being a single mum, just as my predominant thought had always been! I am making a change, for good thoughts of what I truly want. After reading The Secret I realised that I had created all this. So, since I thought myself into it, I am now thinking myself out of it.

I just want to share my story! Thank you, thank you, thank you!