Not too long ago, I gave birth and was in a relationship. Our relationship was one of those passionate in the moment type of relationships.

We moved in together shortly and lived in bliss. Everything was going great and my positive attitude that attracted the relationship and my blessings in life began to dwindle when I got pregnant. It wasn’t the pregnancy itself, just the stresses along with it. I lost my job and my boyfriend and I couldn’t get along anymore. Shortly after I gave birth, we broke up.

I would be lying if I said I wasn’t devastated and I knew that the reason for all this is because of my negative thinking and insecurities. I began for the next weeks, practicing giving thanks and visualizing us being together. Nothing I did was working. I wanted it when I wanted.

It wasn’t until I realized what I’ve been doing wrong. I didn’t let go and focus on my happiness and more importantly, my son.

So, I made a list of the things I needed to do to make myself happy. For example, I needed to make a step to getting my bills taken care of and find a better job.

Well, the next morning after making my list, I took care of one bill and a short while after, I got a phone call for an interview at a job that I was hoping for!

As for my relationship, I know with a little faith and a little patience that the Universe has heard me and if it’s meant to be, it will happen. If not, I know and trust I will have something so much better.