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It Actually Works!!!!
Submitted by: ashlyn
I am college student who has huge dreams and found hope and purpose through the magical workings of the universe.
Thank you, thank you, thank you to the universe, everyone behind The Secret website and me.
The Secret found me when I was in the dumps of life. I had financial troubles, family disputes and I was always irritated and annoyed. I also broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years, dumbest thing I ever did.
After a year I found out he was with someone else. It hit me hard as I had thought I was over him but I wasn’t. I tried to convince myself it was just a competitive feeling but it persisted. Reluctantly I had to admit I was still head over heels in love with him. We started talking and he said he loved me too but he was with someone else.
I decided to use The Secret but I broke down seeing him with this other girl and I gave up. I blocked him so I wouldn’t cry my eyes out every time I saw them together. I tried to move on but all I could think about was him. I decided to give it a final try telling myself and the universe that if we are meant to be this would be it. SoI affirmed, visualized, believed, read and watched The Secret books and DVDs, listened to Abraham Hicks and so on.
Still nothing was happening. I realized I needed to let go.
I was just not happy without him and this had to change. I had to be happy and love and focus on myself first. I started being more grateful, most importantly I started focusing on my career, my dreams and my happiness. I started enjoying being alone, reading, listening to music, meditating, long walks on the beach and watching comedy movies. I let go of doubts and one day when I was frustrated, I created my “Mr. perfect” list and declared to the universe “You know better, give me “A” or someone better!”.
Lo and behold a few days later I unblocked him, we got to talking and he said everything I wanted to hear. He told me his life was a mess without me and he loved me and couldn’t live without me. Turns out he didn’t love this other girl, he was just with her for no apparent reason. They broke up and she is in a happy relationship with someone else.
He proposed me a week later and now we are together and more in love than ever. The LOA does work because looking at our situation, there was no way he could have come back to me. I just couldn’t see how that would be possible, but then again, as Mike Dooley says “Don’t mess with the cursed hows”.
P.S Do not look for happiness in someone else, love yourself, enjoy being alone, love your company, keep your options open to the universe because by the time my ex came back to me I was super ready for another person, someone better even. Focus on your goals first, believe in yourself and the universe will shift anything and everything to give you your desires.