So where do I begin? Firstly, I want to say a huge thank you to the whole team of The Secret and of course, The Universe itself.

In September 2012 I attracted the love of my life while attending my first year at college. We defined the odds as we met at my college in London and soon realized we lived in the same village as each other, 3 minutes from each other’s houses. We’re the only students from anywhere near where I live. Students come from all around the country to attend our college and out of all the 200 people, we were put into the same group. What are the odds!

So anyway, we had the perfect relationship! He became my best friend and I knew I’d spent the rest of my life with him.

We were together a year and a half when things started to go wrong. He changed his course at college so we no longer spent our days together. His apprenticeship course was tough and he spent a lot of hours at his job. I started doubting his loyalty to me. I became paranoid he was lying to me and became very jealous of a girl he spent a lot of time with.

As the law states, my thoughts became reality and we broke up. He became best friends with this girl I’d been worrying about and they started talking a lot more than usual.

I was heartbroken. I honestly didn’t want to get up in the mornings. I genuinely felt like I was slowing dying. It sounds dramatic, but that’s all I can describe it as. My ex didn’t seem to care about me at all. Literally after the day we broke up, he changed completely. This lasted a week and I felt like a complete victim to my circumstances.

However, I have always been a true believer of The Secret. I’ve read all the books on it that I could ever find and watched the film more the 30 times. I even got a tattoo of the quote “Our imagination is the preview of life’s coming attractions” last year.

So, this is when things became interesting. I had my tattoo for awhile, so I don’t even really notice it anymore. However, after this week of misery I’d gone through, I was sitting in my shower in tears. All of a sudden, I noticed my tattoo in the reflection of my shower door. It just sprung out at me. I looked at it and read it aloud.

In that moment, it hit me. Why am I doing this to myself? Why am I here crying over something I can change? I got out of the shower a new person. I knew I could change my current reality. I started writing a gratitude book. I wrote everything I was grateful for in my life. I then wrote a list of all the things that I was grateful for in my ex. I addressed him as my boyfriend on the list. I did this every morning and night. I created a playlist of songs that made me feel good and made me feel in love. I listened to these daily and spent at least 10 minutes visualizing us together. I felt amazing. I felt like I truly had him back.

I did this for about a week, and had a little contact with my ex. When we did speak, he’d be nasty and I must admit it was hard to then really believe we”d be together again. But I knew that the law works, that we are meant to be together. So, this is when the magic started to happen.

One night we had a huge, and I mean HUGE argument. I could not believe the things he was saying to me.

At this point, I laid on my bed and just let go. I truly let go of all my feelings. I thought to myself, I can’t fight this anymore. I went to bed and for the first time in weeks and I slept the whole night.

What happened the next day was incredible, and would have seemed impossible.

My ex sent me messages saying how sorry he was for everything. How he missed me and couldn’t imagine being without me. How he plans to marry me and have kids with me. If anyone could have seen the things that had been said, and the way he acted towards me, they wouldn’t believe it.

It was a miracle. He went from not caring about me, not replying to my messages or talking to me, to being desperate for my attention.

We are now going strong and are moving forward with our lives together.

I want to address anyone who is out there right now, who is going through a break up and feels all hope is lost. Trust me, it only is if you continue to believe that. What happened with my boyfriend and I is a miracle. Within a week, the universe brought him back to me. I didn’t give up and when I finally let go of all the feelings of loss and desperation, the universe delivered.

Yes, we cannot take anyone’s free will away from them, but if they are on the same frequency as you, anything is possible. You attracted them into your life, you attracted the break up, but you can also attract them back.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you!!