The year of 2007 was when I had first read The Secret book. It was the start of many positive changes in my life. Around 2009, I started watching The Secret to money visualization before going to sleep or I would watch it sometime during the day. Whenever it comes to “I have my dream home” I would wonder if I could have my dream home just like on the video, on the hills, looking over the ocean. Then life happened and I forgot about it.

In 2018 I thought I was winning in my life. We bought the lot in my dream village and we were planning to build our dream house someday. To my surprise, life took a different turn. My husband left me and I went into a depression. After almost 2 years, I slowly got back on my feet, and promised to do the things that I wanted to do in my life. That brought me to doing more hiking, to self development trainings, to forgiveness, to healing, and to spirituality until one day I noticed that I became a totally new person. I was full of light, full of joy and peace, non judgmental, loving and energetic.

In 2020 the pandemic happened, and my ex husband came back to me and we started building our dream home together. It was a total turn of events. We both had other relationships at that time and we both did not have the money to build the house. It was like a daring, thrilling, exciting adventure but to our surprise we made it. Our relationship blossomed into our dream relationship.

It has been 2 years since we have been living in our dream house. Now as I prepare to sleep, I watched The Secret to money, and as I saw the line “I have my dream home”, I was stunned and I found myself crying. After so many years of dreaming, of struggles, of so many challenges, of frustrations, of failures, pain and suffering, now I am here. In my dream home. With my family. The dream home that I envisioned became real. It sits on a hill, overlooking a big lake and mountains.

Sometimes when we asked for our dreams, we will meet a different path. This is the time to hold our faith. Because the Universe knows the right way, sometimes not the fastest, not the easiest for us (in our perception) but trust that it is the way. Who could have known that the relationship we ended, after surviving the test of fire, would become new.

It was a little funny. When we broke up, we were enemies. Then we both got depressed and we became friends because we figured out that there’s no one who knows us better than each other. We had been married for 13 years at that time.
After depression, there’s a transformation, a new identity, a new mindset and a new life.

As I look back and remember where we came from, I realized that everything I have now, was all just a dream before. So whatever your dreams are, know that it will come true. Thank you, thank you, thank you!