Single people, take heart. You really can manifest your ideal mate once you get a handle on your wild mind.

At least that was the case with me. I’d watched The Secret more then a few times, and though I’d always found it inspiring, things weren’t really happening for me in the romantic department for many years.

What I was doing, it turns out, is where many people go astray.

I was making the relationship manifesting into a project. Sure, it’s fun to make vision boards and lists and affirmations and whatnot, but my overall vibration was still relatively low. I was still focused on the “what-is-ness” of my current situation.

The solution?

I had to begin making my own happiness the number one priority in my life. That goal takes care of all the others, because when you get happy on a consistent basis, you automatically attract into your life all the wonderful things you desire. The Universe seems to keep a running tally of what you want, then delivers the goods according to your thoughts, expectations, and general vibrational state.

So, I raised my vibration doing what I love to do. Whatever it happened to be at any given time. After a while I was so satisfied with my life that Mr. Right snuck up on me at a meditation retreat, where we were both doing something we loved. He’s the perfect match for me in so many ways, many of which I didn’t even believe were possible. As I write this, we’ve just celebrated our 2-year anniversary.

In the months preceding this stellar MANifestation, I did use pro-active visualization. Once I got my mind in that happier state, that is. I imagined the two of us walking around town holding hands, and dancing together. Not only did these episodes of make believe transform into physical reality later on, but they felt like carbon copies of my imaginings, a waking deja vu experience!

So, may that be an inspiration to you if you are currently single. You, too, can meet someone who is a perfect match for you. I was stubborn as can be, so your results are bound to manifest more quickly!

Much love to you all.