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I Finally Let Him Go And Then He Came Back
Submitted by: Carla G
Toronto, CAA happy soul.
I was always a happy person, had lots of friends and still do. I always was told I was a smart and fun girl.
There was one person I wanted to feel the same way about me.
He did only in the beginning months of our relationship. We moved in together and that’s when everything changed. He picked fights, stopped saying he loved me, found reasons as to why we weren’t good for each other.
But I was desperate. I changed his mind every time and somehow convinced him that we should give it another shot. But something inside me died.
I kept using LOA to keep him around, but I was not using the one ingredient really needed.
Letting go.
He would stick around for another few weeks and then would want to end things again.
Well this time, I finally felt that I had to let him go.
He claimed that we weren’t right for each other anymore and that he didn’t love me anymore. I became silent and instead of my usual “Lets give this another shot” answer, I said “You should move out, I cant do this anymore”. He did not respond or react. In fact he acted like he did not care.
I knew that he was going to come back and believed that the universe will bring him back to me. Well a week later, he wanted to talk. He said that he was sorry that he acted the way he did all these months and that I was the only girl who put him in his place for once.
He said hes realized that he took me for granted and wanted to give us a chance. That’s right, HE said it this time! He’s been great ever since and says he loves me every day!!