I Attracted My Marriage!
I want to say thank you, thank you, thank you, to Rhonda, her great team, and to every single person that has shared their story here. You have no idea how much every story inspires someone else and helps keep our faith and dreams alive!
Four years ago I saw the movie, The Secret, for the first time. I liked it a lot but I did not understand it fully. Two years later my life started to get really difficult. Moneywise, my studies, love, my family, everything was going wrong. I had a breakdown since my mind went into chaos until I finally decided that I was the problem and something had to change. The main reason for my breakdown I thought, was the lack of love in my life since I had so much love to give and I was feeling so lonely.
Suddenly, I remembered about the movie I saw, The Secret. I started watching it like crazy, every single day until I almost recorded every single word in my mind. I also read The Magic and heard The Power in audiobook which I really loved! I started writing down a list of all the qualities I wanted in my future husband and I started loving myself more.
I finally attracted a new love into my life. I dated this guy for a few months but it was a long-distance relationship and eventually, it started to become problematic. He was everything that I had asked for and wrote down on my list but that was the problem! I did not ask for the right things! I asked for what I thought would be the perfect man for me. I broke up with him since the relationship was making me feel worse and then I reviewed my list. I found many qualities that now I knew I did not want in my future husband.
I started a new list. I also started to sleep on the side of my bed as if I was always sleeping with my husband. I moved my clothes to make space for my husband’s clothes. I prayed every night for the man that would be my husband, even though I did not know him yet. I wanted him to be healthy and happy. I also bought a cheap ring that looked like an engagement ring and wore it every day to feel like I was already engaged.
One day, I started talking to one of the guys I had met when I was a kid. He was living in Boston and I was in Montreal. He came to see me several times until he was sure he was completely in love with me and was searching for a way to come live here. My best friend’s boyfriend owns a construction company here and he needed help. He asked my boyfriend to work for him and that is how he moved to Montreal. I was unsure since I still needed to know him more but then I realized he was also everything that I had asked for. Wow! He was even more than I had ever expected!
He just proposed to me 2 months ago and we are getting married next month!
I cannot believe this. I am only 24 and I already met my soul mate! He now sleeps on the same side of the bed where I imagined him to be. He put all his clothes next to mine in my closet and he also proposed to me. I was attracting marriage since I felt ready for it.
I have so many more stories to share but I will do it slowly. This is for those who worry about love. Make your list, ask for good qualities and values, be grateful for already having the love of your life even if you don’t know who it is yet. Pray for that person and send him blessings. You will see that you will attract the most wonderful person to you.
I am so grateful, and I am so thankful to all of you for sharing your stories with the world. They made me stronger whenever doubt was creeping in. I love you all, thank you, thank you, thank you!