I was introduced to The Secret about a year ago. At first it was a bit difficult to change the way of habitual negative thinking, but I made my vision board with happy couples in love, a separate flat, beautiful slim women (I wanted to lose some weight), and some little things I wanted to have. I also made my soul mate description.

In November 2009, I got acquainted with one man. I liked him, but wasn’t sure we could click. Sometimes we met due to our work and I could feel he liked me, and well I liked him too, but still wasn’t sure.

In April I decided we should try to become closer. He asked me out very close to the way I had imagined, and everything fell into place. We fell in love and started the ideal, full of romance relationship.

We were very close since childhood; we studied in the same school, but we almost didn’t meet. As he confessed later, he noticed me in October, at exactly the same time as I made my soul mate description. What a coincidence!!! We speak the same way, we like the same things, we feel absolutely comfortable together. Everything was like a fairytale.

But in a couple of months, my negativity started to reveal itself. I stopped being grateful, I focused on negative little things, and I almost forgot about The Secret. No surprise, our relationship started to spoil. The problem in me was the fear of his love just being a passion, and that everything could finish.

In August we broke up. He said he didn’t love me anymore because of my constantly feeling hurt, and he didn’t feel ready for a long and serious relationship. At first I thought everything would be ok, we just needed to take some space. Then I thought I didn’t want him anymore because he had some features in his character I didn’t like. I then made a list of his good and bad features. I understood that I still loved him, and all in all, he is my perfect partner. Everything I disliked was just a problem in my thoughts.

I made a new vision board with couples hugging and kissing, having fun together, families with children. I started feeling grateful for him being in my life again: I started cooking for two again, I bought a new toothbrush for him, put a second towel in the bathroom. I felt being in relationship with him again. I imagined the evening when he texts me asking if we could talk about us. I imagined our talk and my feelings of happiness and calmness.

At first it was like a ping pong game. During the day I felt ok, but in the evening I started thinking about our last fight and felt hurt. Sometimes I cried because I really missed him. Then I understood that I was spoiling the magic again and started concentrating on the good.

In some weeks it became easier; I became more capable to control my thoughts. I printed stories from this website and re-read them religiously, I looked at photos with my boyfriend and burst with love for him, I made my gratitude book and wrote everything I was grateful for. The list was huge.

Since I learnt The Secret, I attracted a separate flat, increased income, I lost eight kilos, I got a lot of great friends, some special stylish clothes, I improved relationships with my parents, and so on. I also felt grateful for everything good in my boyfriend, everything I loved, and that last fight became just a shadow. I didn’t feel pain because of it anymore. I started feeling confident, loved, and blessed. I started again getting everything I wanted, even without asking and concentrating. I just thought of something I needed, and got it in a couple of days. Pure magic. How grateful I was and I am!

That imagined evening arrived. He texted me and came to me. He said he felt sorry for treating me that way, that he understood how much he loves me and that he missed me terribly. He even said he came to my house several times to watch my windows, to learn whether I was at home or not, thinking where could I be. I was on cloud number nine. We were sitting on the floor in the hall almost crying, apologizing for everything and promising to stay on the positive side.

Since that evening we are together again and we are even happier than we were before. He became more caring and loving, and we spend almost all our time together. He is nothing but good. We love each other, plan our wedding, and want to have children.

The main thing I learned from my own experience is that positive thinking is strength, negativity is weakness. You deserve love, and love deserves gratitude. Don’t let little things you can avoid and improve with just one thought spoil the whole wonderful thing. And one more point, “how” is really The Universe’s part of creating. Feel happy and grateful.

My sincere thanks to Rhonda, The Secret team, and all those who shared their stories here. I shared The Secret knowledge with a lot of special ones. Their lives are also transformed. Thanks to you all!!!