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Got My Ex Back From Her Ex!
Submitted by: Mona
Colorado SpringsI’m all about nature!! If I’m not working I am either hiking or spending time with loved ones.
Thank you, God, and thank you for orchestrating the Universe in bringing me what I first thought was seriously impossible. Thank you to Rhonda for opening me up to a better way of faith and praying.
This might be long. I had a series of not so good relationships in my past. I thought, “Is this what it’s going to be like? Having a love life that lives no longer than 6 months or so?” I had been attracting the same type of short-lived relationships for some time.
I became aware of The Secret back in 2016. I tested it and it worked! I lived gratefully and things started to change!
Then one day I meet this woman. I began to get to know her while in class over a span of a year. We eventually met up to go hiking and by the end of June, we were spending hours a day with one another. Then the twist comes in. She told me she had been seeing someone before she had met me but had chosen to leave her for me. Her ex lived in another country. I was unsure about it all and I told her how I felt.
Well, she and I continued our relationship and it went okay but I could tell something was on her mind. She had been missing her ex. Well, fast forward to November she was back with her ex.
It hurt like hell and I tried to move on. It was hard to not answer her calls, hard to turn her away from my doorstep when she wasn’t having the best time with her ex. My ex and I tried to stay friends. At times I would disappear and I would tell her that I needed that space because I felt like I wasn’t moving on. Eventually, we stopped talking. Once a week we had to attend a conference call from home, and even then we barely acknowledged each other.
Then my ex became engaged to her ex. Throughout those months of trying to get her back my way, and simultaneously using the law of attraction, I had gotten in the way and I lost her.
I lost all hope and gave up. But then I began to get myself back up. I remembered what I liked to do! I pushed myself to go to my favorite hiking places and I discovered new places. I met up with new people, made new friends, got a great, new job and my finances were becoming more than I had ever expected. I even got my own home!!
During that time I would think about my ex here and there. We’d interact over zoom and that didn’t bother me so much anymore. I got better and again started to believe that my ex and I could have the relationship that we both wanted with each other. Even though she was engaged to her ex, I somehow knew I could still have a great relationship with her.
This time I fully believed and I used all the tools that I had learned before for getting my ex back. The most powerful thing for me was to get back up. I believed, and then I let her go. I let her go and trusted that God and the Universe had a plan.
The person who was once my ex is now my wife! I didn’t believe that just because she had left me for her ex that I couldn’t get her back. I believed differently.
Now my wife and I are standing happy, proud and in love, four years into our marriage!
Find your way!! Find yourself!! Trust in God and the Universe!!