When you are young, you are creating your life, discovering yourself, and experiencing new things every day. This is the time to empower yourself, become the best version of yourself, and be more confident, resourceful, and intelligent, both inside and out.

After starting junior college, I entered a new phase in my life. My personality became more refined, and I excelled in class and in interactions with teachers and friends. I started receiving a lot of attention from guys. My life was content and exciting. I had just returned from a Model United Nations (MUN) Conference and found out that my co-delegate had feelings for me. After getting to know him for a few months and him pursuing me, we started dating. For eight months, it was a beautiful experience, and I grew as a person. We had wonderful times together, and I transitioned from a childish teen to a young adult in every way.

However, I became too attached and afraid of losing the paradise I was living in. He was very dedicated and loving, but I would doubt, fight, and smother him, pushing him away. We both maintained our individuality and holistic view of life throughout our relationship.

One day, he decided to break up with me, and although we got back together within four days, he broke up again after a month, and I had no choice but to stay strong. I resolved to work on becoming a better person and held onto the belief that we would find our way back to each other.

We had a common, close-knit friend circle, which made things uneasy, but I remained positive and was learning to let it go, hoping he would come back. It wasn’t his fault; I had pushed him away. To prevent me from getting close again, he started being mean, avoiding contact, and behaving coldly. This really saddened me. I had been making peace with the idea that being apart would heal us individually, but his tough behavior shook my faith. I tried calling him after a month or two, only to see him get angry at me.

One night, I decided to meditate before going to sleep, and I thought about The Secret. I had read the book before and I had seen it work. Since then, I have been using the powerful process and the law of attraction, and I can say that things have healed between us. He still holds back, but he stares at me, shows up at places I want to see him, and we spend time together in a group. It’s beautiful to love someone unconditionally, accept all their flaws, forgive them completely, send them light, and enjoy your own life without burdening them with expectations. This, I believe, is being kind to yourself, reaching your potential, excelling in life, and truly loving someone. I know we will be a happy, hearty couple soon, with great comfort, good energy, joy, a strong, sparkling attraction, and unconditional support for each other. I am looking forward to amazing dates, cozy moments, long conversations, complete harmony, and mutual understanding shared together.

Send your love, and always remember that nobody can hurt you without your consent. Forgive easily, believe in yourself, believe time heals, and believe in the magic. Believe and enjoy life with full gratitude!