On Finding True Love.
First of all, I would like to thank Rhonda Byrne for bringing this fantastic explanation of everything to the world! Thanks to you a lot of people are happier today than they ever were, including myself! I owe you a lot!
I have manifested a lot of things in my life thanks to the LOA! My university degree, different friendships and internships and specific objects and events. However, the highlight of it all, is without a doubt, the wonderful man I am with now.
My journey of finding true love was a long one. I am very emotional and I have suffered a lot because of that. I always got discouraged so easily, I had self-esteem issues and I honestly thought there was something extremely wrong with me. My journey with the LOA started when my heart got broken for the first time. I fell in love with one of my closest friends, and he didn’t love me back. I was absolutely crushed. I kept asking the Universe for him to come back into my life at some point. Little did I know there was something much better waiting for me once I was ready and mature enough for an actual relationship. I should say though, that by that, I don’t just mean any kind of relationship. I always wanted this ‘movie love’ kind of thing, and I was never going to settle for anything less!
Once I realized my own worth and started truly loving myself, everything changed. Suddenly I was surrounded by amazing people who all saw me and appreciated me for what I was. There were several boys, too. I thought a few of them were really attractive, but there was one that was really standing out. This boy, let’s call him John, absolutely stood out to me. We had this instant chemistry. I could tell from the very first conversation that we had that he liked me. He was charming, funny, so appreciative of my company, it just felt right and good to be around him.
He did have a girlfriend at the time. He had been dating her for a couple of months. So it didn’t even cross my mind to pursue him in any way. However, he kept messaging me, and I could tell his feelings for me were very genuine. Things with the girl he was dating weren’t going well anyway and at one point he actually admitted to having feelings for me. This is when I backed down. I was still shocked for some reason. And this is when I realized that I had let myself fall in love with him. He was feeling terrible and kind of fearful. I wanted things to work out in the best way, even if that meant me losing him the end. I want to stress on the fact that there was no cheating involved, not even a kiss between us at that point.
So a few days after I let go, he actually told me that he had broken up with his girlfriend and wants to be with me. At this point I was very aware of my feelings and I said yes, despite some of my friends being doubtful because of the way our relationship developed. And all I can tell you now is that we consider this to be the best decision we ever made. We are both each other’s dreams come true.
People, don’t give up on the love that you want. If I could find someone who adores everything about me, looks at me with this fire in his eyes and wants to plan his whole future around me, so can you! And I had to wait nearly 23 years for my first real love to happen. It was worth the wait! Trust me! The Secret works! Just hold your desire in your heart and dream it to life! The only thing to make sure of is that you don’t involve your ego’s gratification, but the greater good for everyone! I never wanted him to leave the other girl for me. I just wanted things to work out in the best way for all of us, so everyone could be happy and better off in the end!