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Finally Got The Relationship I Dreamed Of!
Submitted by: A Happy Girl
Canada,B.CI'm a dreamer and a believer :)
Hello everyone,
I hope you are all believing in the magic of life and making your dreams come true!! Thank you so much Rhonda and the team for writing the most inspiring books and for making the world a more positive place.
Alrighty, my story starts a couple years ago. I have liked this guy that I’ve been working with for two years and throughout that time, we shared a lot of laughter and talked a lot. I could feel there was something between us, but still I was worried that he only viewed me as just a co-worker and we never seemed to get closer. After awhile he started dating someone else we worked with and I was absolutely devastated, as she was very verbally abusive to me and a very negative obstacle in my life. That was a very low time for me as I developed a lot of bad habits to cope with the extreme sadness I felt and even though I had believed in The Secret all my life, I wasn’t sure I could truly have what I wanted this time.
A few months went by, and I found myself coming back to this website every day and reading all the articles I could on relationships. Slowly I found my positivity and I decided to focus on myself, and feeling the worthiness and the love all around me. As I held onto this feeling I met a lot of very happy people who complimented me and my work seemed to get better as he started joking with me again, and (thank you universe) I was not put on a schedule to work with his girlfriend anymore. I was happy and I felt that things were going my way.
I knew in my heart that I was meant to be with him, and I found out a few months later they broke up. I felt so thrilled and decided to make a gratitude list of the qualities I loved about him, and I visualized that I would spend Christmas with him, and that we would be in a relationship by the new year. I did this up until December when a lot of things started changing. My job got very negative, my other co-workers were very unhappy and took it out on me so I decided to quit my job just before Christmas. It was very stressful but I held onto my positivity that I would leave that place and things would work out. A few days before then I was telling the guy I like that I was going to leave, and I burst into tears! I broke down and told him how hard everything has been for me, even about his ex-girlfriend, and we skipped work as he listened to me for a long time just holding me. Afterwards he told me to keep in contact with him, and even talked to our boss for me. I left on Christmas eve.
Like magic he contacted me and wanted to see me on Christmas! On New Years we met again and he said he wanted to start this year with me, just as I had visualized and gave thanks for!!
We are now in a very happy relationship!! My next goal was to move in with him and within two weeks he asked me to move my stuff in! He adores me and treats me like a queen and we’ve promised to meet each other in every lifetime.
Sorry this is so long but I wanted show that even though it took me two years to believe and be grateful, I finally got my wish!!
Be positive, laugh a lot, and love as much as you can, your wishes will come true too! 🙂